Hello, I'm been a reader on this forum for about 1 - 2 months, and i just got a kinda sticky situation. So i wondered if someone could have some tips for me.

Ok here is the deal. I meet a girl last Thursday, we chatted a little and. I was getting a lot of ioi's. But then something came up and i had to go. The next day she added me as a friend on facebook and I said hi etc.. and we found out that it would be best if we went on a date.

Thats the good part. the bad part is I'm in the middle of my exam's period. I got an exam on Thursday and i need all my time spent on studies, so i really can't go on a date just jet. I haven't really talked much whit her. Just some messages but i know that shes interested. And I know that this is in the early stages so if i want this girl around i have to keep her mind occupied on me. But how do i do that when i really don't know her. This is now Monday and the earliest day I can go on a date is Friday.

There is also a big party on Thursday that I have to attend and I asked if she was going to it. But hm since its so early I really just want her on a date bye myself. But that can't happen until Friday, and I'm afraid thats to far in the future to keep things interesting.

Quite a long read but this is really one of the first girls I have payed any interest in since i broke opp with my ex gf a couple of months ago.

Anyone got any suggestions? Help is much appreciated.

Thx

I would say take her to the party on thursday and plan to meet the next time for some coffee or something . .. just make sure at the party you dont get too smashed and if that party blows . . .leave with her but make sure she isn't having a good time because if u ask her to leave when she is enjoying herself might be a DLV . . .i would say that u wouldn't lose her if u waited to friday anyway as long as you keep talking to her and messaging her stuff like thatconsidering what u said i would say ur fine to do it up on friday i am sure she has shit she needs to study for so it would be fine

just my two cents


good luck

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dude, you are straight, that def isnt too soon. Remember your priorities, school and life are more important that any girl ever! Focus on school, call her once during the week, maybe tuesday or wednesday for like 10-15 to build some comfort and suggest that she comes with you to the party, other wise def make plans for the weekend. A girl who's interested in you wont forget you unless you fuck things up yourself or you wait too long. In this case when you call her, let her know you have exams and shit to study for, so you have to stay focused and then she can have fun with you on the weekend. Go for it

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Thx, for the great answers, really appreciate it.. First things first I'll have to wait until tomorrow to hear if shes going to the party or not. If she isn't I will set up a date on Friday.

And if she is I'll be sure not to be to wasted and in a happy mood. And meet her at the party. Since we don't have any friends in common that I know of I think it would be a little weird and needy to go on the same preparty. I'm usually great whit new people but it if we go to the same preparty it would either require that she got to meet a lot of my friends or i would have to meet a lot of her friends and as I said its in the early stages and i dunno if it ever going to be something, So that would be like having the first date at her moms house..

Thinking of just asking for her digits and give her a call one of the days like you said xxIcexx .. Any tips of openers btw? I really dont know shit about this girl. A good icebreaker would been great.

well i figured you had her number already, so i assume facebook will be your method of finding out if shes going or not???

send this in a message, not wall post

hey, i was seeing if you are going to be going to so-and-so's party, we should meet up if you decide to go, heres my number ###-####.

usually when i send a message like that of some sort, i always get a number back. if not then shes a retard

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

Yes it is hehe ok will do but I already responded later this day asking if she was going.. But I guess I should throw in my number if she says that she is going or not I would respond that "We should meet up if you decide to go, heres my number ###-####."

Hehe guess I'm more rusty than i would like to admit.. But thx for the tips. I'll keep you posted on my development.

Okey.. update i gave her my number and she gave me hers.. I got drunk and I saved the wrong number on my cell.. so when she started to text me I diden't know who it was, and it was a whole lot off confusion from my part :p

Neither less things worked out. I was just going for being nice, polite and drunk. And it ended whit a F-close, happy ending

Nice, polite, and drunk . . . leading to a f-close. lol. College eh?

Anyway, congrats on the progress.

hehehe yes collage :p It was back to basic social skills that night.. Thx