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In the end, being proactive is a naturally masculine role. Trying to get women to chase you is not only a denial of your role as the man, but also a huge waste of time because taking the lead will lead to much faster results.

The ego will give you plenty of excuses to justify protecting itself. Putting ego aside will ultimately make everything more awesome.

When you're approaching a lot, being direct a lot and escalating aggressively, it's inevitable that some girls (not all) will chase you. Yes, it happens. How?

Most girls will play hard to get to gauge your interest level. There's this girl that I chased and asked out on a date once. Well, she flaked. She got the NC for one month. When I finally showed up like nothing happened, she chased and subtly asked me out on a date. Bad thing is, I failed to realize that she was asking me out on a date and I said, "No". It isn't the ego. Girls are so subtle that I failed to read the sign. Her girlie bestfriend said something like, "X and I are going to church this Sunday. We'll go to y and z place afterwards. Would you like to come and join the two of us?" I said, "No, I'm busy." I saw the disappointment in X's face when I turned her bestfriend's offer down. Dumb. I know. That would have been a very easy isolation since her bestfriend was already doing the work for me.

A few more almost similar incidents like the example above happened until I realized my mistake.

The hard lesson is: When a girl starts chasing you, quickly lead her towards the isolation bounce and f-close as fast as you can. Don't let the urge to reciprocate her initial rejection of your approach get the better of you. Don't hurt a woman's ego. It has probably taken her a lot of courage to chase you in the first place when she realized that she's about to lose the fun and attractive guy she played hard to get on.

Again, don't play hard to get when a woman starts chasing. Set her up for a hang out in your apartment something like, "My washer broke down. I really suck at hand washing. My laundry has already piled up this high. Can you help me this Sunday?"

No that isn't manipulation. That's calibration. When a woman feels horny for you, she'll do nice things for you like do your laundry. When she starts chasing, you know that she's horny when she actually starts doing your laundry. But of course, f-close her first before you let her finish washing all of your clothes.

Letting her do the cooking instead of the laundry works well too.

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