If any readers have had occasional success with sending a 2nd Email to a lady, who never replied to your first message on a dating site, what do you say that's humorously witty and shows you know she's having to deal with lots of crap messages, yet it also avoids criticising her for not answering.

Like do you just resend your previous original message, if you saved it of course, or you just remind that you wrote before.

I'm so sorry... That won't work. The girl knows she ignored you, reminding her won't help you

Anyway, I've been in the same situation once when I was flirting online with a chick that had a boyfriend. Went great and then she stopped answering. What I did was that I forced an response. I wrote

HOLY SHIT, JUST THOUGHT OF THE BEST PICK UP LINE. ANSWER THIS:
you like dragons?

Then she answer something like "haha yeah they´re alright, whats the line???"

I didn't reply to her. Instead I started a poke war on facebook which ran on for some months. Then I met her at a party this weekend and got her number (some heavy kino and flirting aswell). I'm wrapped around her finger but doesn't take effort on my side so I don't mind

Moral of story: get her to want you instead of you wanting her

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even if she replies, which is unlikely, and even if you get a "date" with the girl from the dating site, you probably won't hear back from her again. most likely, you will spend many hours, days, and months on the dating site and miss out on all the fun that is going out and talking to women at dance classes, coffee shops, clubs, groups, events, shows, parties, etc.

sites like match.com and okcupid.com are full dudes, if you interested in dudes, stay on the site. if you are interested in women, delete your profile and go where the women are - outside!

I do the online thing. It gets depressing, but I am getting better at it. I am more selective right now, and my reply rate has stayed the same. In terms of openers online, I find that what has worked for me with a 5 works as well if I just go after a 7-8. So I will say just practice on most everyone and see how it goes.

I have never had, even when I did this years ago, any lady actually meet me if she didn't respond to me on the first email. But I am still learning. Would like to see if you have success.

Swedishguy is right your follow up message won't work. Better off with a random message or something that is more likely to invoke a reply.