Met a great girl, known her for two weeks, had two awesome dates. She's pretty (about 7.5 - eight) smart and witty has her sh-t together and our personalities click. That makes her about a 9.5 in my book. She's girlfriend material.

We made out and cuddled on the second date at her house for a couple hours. Chemistry is 100%. That was last Sunday. Set a 3rd date for Friday (tomorrow), going out for dinner then a movie at her house.

I haven't stopped thinking about her all week. I'm playing it cool - we only talked monday for 5 minutes and texted back and forth today).

Tomorrow, I'm thinking of doing this: When I leave her house (either A: Saturday morning or B: Friday late night), saying goodbye then turning to go but stopping turn around make eye contact and saying "oh by the way...I'm crazy about you." wait 1.5-2 seconds and leave.

I know it's risk. My strategy is threefold: 1: (because I know she likes me by now...I can just tell) to leave her hanging with that thought in her mind until we talk next, 2: because it would be unique,, i mean who does that?...3:...or possibly her saying it back to me and then we can wrinkle some sheets.


Bad idea? What are the bad things that can happen?

thats a pretty good idea.. except say something else instead of crazy about you.. something a bit more subtle but she can still take the hint ykno?

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Good idea. Something more suble, like "I can't stop thinking about you", or ...?

id say do something cute like this:


walk out, turn and look at her then start to look down and giggle

her: why are you giggling?/whats so funny/ what?
you: nothing... you're just.. perfect
silly > neutral > serious


dunno man be original and have a back-up incase she turns and goes wtf

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Dude, instead of telling her that ur crazy about her how about you show her that ur "crazy" about her in a creative way.

She had just taken a shower and was wearing a robe when I got to her house, we didn't even make it out for dinner.... I did tell her I couldn't stop thing about her all week, after the act(s)...she was neutral so I just dropped the subject.

you need to convey that your brain has been somehow hijacked by her and that you don't know how or why ur feeling this way. Ex."you suck, so thae other day I was at a (someplace where u shop) and I saw a (object) and I wondered if you'd like it. But wait why was I thinking about you?..." say something along those lines. Or just make her something or cook her something and feed her. Trust me she will get the message.

If there's any chance to escelate...

When next you see her, isolate her and move in close - so close it's a tad uncomfortable. Look deep in her eyes for a split second.... break a soft smile,a nd simply say "You have no idea what you do to me"...

And walk the fuck away.

Avoid contact with her for a few days. Ensure you're seen, but don't engage - show that you don't give a fuck.

You can move to text and go random, or you can bold it out in a F2F. As of now, it sounds like it diffused... If you want her, ramp it back up, but YOU control it, and build the illusion...

Then the next time you see her in a robe, it'll be because she doesn't want to make you breakfast naked.

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fuck routines they are creepy all about being natural and being your self practice that and your do fine.