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PostPosted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 11:08 pm 
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I agree with the whole post... Never really though about it that way though.

So the question... How do you handle girls already chasing you without them losing interest?


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I agree with the whole post... Never really though about it that way though.

So the question... How do you handle girls already chasing you without them losing interest?
Read my post on the first page.

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So basically keep on plowing. And don't show any negative emotions if she doesn't respond well?


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You mention risk versus return. I think life is much more of a balance than a binary option of chase vs being chased. Just to be a little nerdy here, below is a common basis of portfolio management:

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The red line is the risk free rate (make her chase you) and the x axis is the standard deviation (risk of rejection from coming on too strong). Why can't we adopt a strategy that incorporates risky behaviors with risk-less behaviors, to achieve the efficient portfolio? How much do you make her chase you vs how much do you make her feel desired is that market portfolio we want -- it has the best expected return per the standard deviation. A balanced approached is the method that I use to invest my time and energy into the best portfolio. Because at the end of the day, too much risk also leads to lost opportunities.

Metaphorically, of course.
I like this concept but I can't help but feeling a new guy reading this will associate this with taking as few risk as possible instead of taking risk at the right time and place and trying again. I think starting with risks is good enough.


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Wow, I have never thought about being chased this way.

Some months ago, my game plan was to actually get girls chasing me... I did it, but all of them were girls I was not that much into, so I scrapped the idea.

You may be right, there is no substitution to action. Great post chief!!

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I've developed my game to having an intuitive mindset. I always try to figure them out... then I'll plan my angle from there. Whichever gambit, opener, scenario works best for her... then what methodology works... Is she the shy kind that loves the over-aggressive man? Is she controlling and wants the guy who will 'seemingly' acquiesce to her (then I become the silent assassin)?

I build the image they want to see if I'm intending on playing them.

Learn the target, learn her tells, and paint the picture she wants to see.

Some want to be chased, some need to chase me... If I have them targeted, and I've number-closed... there's a HIGH probability I'll F-close. Usually the only factor that says otherwise is my own interest. I'll keep 7-8 in the stable at any given time (no need to embellish - it's a real number, don't flame me). Then as I meet someone else, or get bored - I'll cull the herd, many times without F-closing.

Chief hit the nail on the head insofar as chasing is concerned.... At this stage in my life... I know the moment I've closed the chick - mentally. It's then I say "I already fucked her, now all I have to do is stick it in". Once that chase/conquest is over - usually, I'm bored and ready to move on.


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... If I have them targeted, and I've number-closed... there's a HIGH probability I'll F-close. Usually the only factor that says otherwise is my own interest. I'll keep 7-8 in the stable at any given time (no need to embellish - it's a real number, don't flame me). Then as I meet someone else, or get bored - I'll cull the herd, many times without F-closing.

d.... At this stage in my life... I know the moment I've closed the chick - mentally. It's then I say "I already fucked her, now all I have to do is stick it in". Once that chase/conquest is over - usually, I'm bored and ready to move on.
So this time you didnt fuck 800 girls :lol:


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I just say more than one and 'probably' less than a hundred...







...what hundred is not the issue.


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I just say more than one and 'probably' less than a hundred...







...what hundred is not the issue.
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Yeah, you seem to be one of the few people who talk sense on this forum. Agree with everything you say on here. Only thing is that it might make AFC's revert back to begging for number's make out's etc and lose that Alpha mentality


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Mag, I kinda feel if AFCs are here - they're aware they're AFCs and that's already a step in the right direction.

We all were there once - no judgements for that - only support and help.

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I've developed my game to having an intuitive mindset. I always try to figure them out... then I'll plan my angle from there. Whichever gambit, opener, scenario works best for her... then what methodology works... Is she the shy kind that loves the over-aggressive man? Is she controlling and wants the guy who will 'seemingly' acquiesce to her (then I become the silent assassin)?

I build the image they want to see if I'm intending on playing them.

Learn the target, learn her tells, and paint the picture she wants to see.

Some want to be chased, some need to chase me... If I have them targeted, and I've number-closed... there's a HIGH probability I'll F-close. Usually the only factor that says otherwise is my own interest. I'll keep 7-8 in the stable at any given time (no need to embellish - it's a real number, don't flame me). Then as I meet someone else, or get bored - I'll cull the herd, many times without F-closing.

Chief hit the nail on the head insofar as chasing is concerned.... At this stage in my life... I know the moment I've closed the chick - mentally. It's then I say "I already fucked her, now all I have to do is stick it in". Once that chase/conquest is over - usually, I'm bored and ready to move on.
We share the same mindset, it's refreshing to see there are others that share my beliefs and methods in regards to pick up.

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I've developed my game to having an intuitive mindset. I always try to figure them out... then I'll plan my angle from there. Whichever gambit, opener, scenario works best for her... then what methodology works... Is she the shy kind that loves the over-aggressive man? Is she controlling and wants the guy who will 'seemingly' acquiesce to her (then I become the silent assassin)?

I build the image they want to see if I'm intending on playing them.

Learn the target, learn her tells, and paint the picture she wants to see.

Some want to be chased, some need to chase me... If I have them targeted, and I've number-closed... there's a HIGH probability I'll F-close. Usually the only factor that says otherwise is my own interest. I'll keep 7-8 in the stable at any given time (no need to embellish - it's a real number, don't flame me). Then as I meet someone else, or get bored - I'll cull the herd, many times without F-closing.

Chief hit the nail on the head insofar as chasing is concerned.... At this stage in my life... I know the moment I've closed the chick - mentally. It's then I say "I already fucked her, now all I have to do is stick it in". Once that chase/conquest is over - usually, I'm bored and ready to move on.

wholly shit! i thought you were sexaddict!!! I think men are design by nature to be the hunters, it can be the finest girl in the world as soon as she chase, i lose attraction, i wonder if it happens to any of you guys? I believe that everybody likes a challenge...

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3 weeks ago, at a little 'reunion' of sorts out of the state, my ex was there as well. After a group of us went out, I watched my ex drinking a tad much and decided to do a confirm-close/takeaway right there.

When she returned to the table, I dropped $40 for drinks and told her I was bouncing. She lunged into my arms and begged me to stay... I told her I was getting a cab and going to my room, that I'd be out front - and stared into her eyes without blinking... then turned and walked before she could react from the eye-contact.

She caught up with me a few steps later and left with me.

I closed it more for spite than deisre - I KNEW I was going to close it the moment she reacted to my takeaway the way she did. I also realized I was over her. Game was too easy on her. The appeal was lost - the conquest was a given.



But, damn.... that was pretty fucking cool. At 45, she's still an 8 (OK, a 7, I'm biased...).

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risk (rsk)
n.
1. The possibility of suffering harm or loss; danger.
2. A factor, thing, element, or course involving uncertain danger; a hazard: "the usual risks of the desert: rattlesnakes, the heat, and lack of water" (Frank Clancy).
3.
a. The danger or probability of loss to an insurer.
b. The amount that an insurance company stands to lose.
4.
a. The variability of returns from an investment.
b. The chance of nonpayment of a debt.
5. One considered with respect to the possibility of loss:

1. ^"Risk" doesn't apply to pick up other than the 'potential loss' of the girl.

2. "Making her chase you" and fueling this dynamic is quite different from sitting there gleefully watching the World go by.

3. Playing the horny monkey can be more 'risky' (potential loss of the girl) than fueling her excitement to 'chase you'.


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