I’m probably a just above average - maybe a 5. i had a haircut over the weekend which i wasn’t entirely happy with as i have never suited short hair.in other words my mentality for town was just as short as my hair. Anyway i headed to my pals birthday party, where i avoided two girls that i knew until later on, instead of saying hi as i came through the door. They picked up on this, and i got called a snub. They hung out with us until the end of the night which i though cockblocked us (They had boyfriends that myself and the wingman knew), so we spent most of the night trying to ditch the girls. i was not too fussed about picking up but still kept trying, and town was an insane sausage feast with the ratios of 3 guys to one girl. the whole night the responses i had were either that they were giving me weird looks, blatantly avoiding me and saying things like " you got no game" or "you need to stop trying hard, i have a boyfriend but girls already think you are hot" from the sets i approached. in other words just a night of major crash and burn. I think there are a few things that i could improve but when you hear things like that first comment, it ruins your confidence and right now, i could do with a hug haha. i probably approached somewhere between 5-10 girls, i wasn’t too drunk so what I’m wandering is that if it's even possible to have this much rejects in one night?. Has anyone here been through this? If so in what way do you reframe? i can’t take another hit like that lol

Get your inner-game together. Maybe a 5? Is this a joke? We're pickup artists, 5's don't exist. Your knowledge of the game alone sets you ahead of most guys. It's likely that your lack of confidence was blatantly obvious to all of those sets.

Ignored girls? Why on earth would you do that? Learn the 3 second rule and live by it.

"Can't take another hit like that"? You can take another hit like that and you will. You survived and you always will. Off-days happen, pick yourself up, learn from the experience, and try again.

cheers for the insight man. appreciate it. ive noticed that my gam improved heaps when i stopped giving a shit about the way i look and what not. since my first post ive had a lot of success i think that was down to not care about other peoples opinion of me