Im 18, and in grade 12, ive been into bodybuilding for 4 years, and i have been told by many people, including girls that i am good looking. One problem though- i cannot get a chick. Im not in the "popular" group, but im not a "nerd". Ive read all the pua books out there, but nothing helps as they do not offer advice on game for chicks you know. Every time a chick (at school) shows interest, i dismiss it (due to lack of self confidence) and i pussy out of making a move in fear of thes social ramefecations that will follow my rejection. So basically i need a lot pf help haha. Thanx

I can totally relate to you. Not that I am as good looking as you are; I am rather normal looking. But I do relate with the fact that you dismiss every time a girl shows interest. That's basically the story of my life. In some occassions I don't mind because I didn't like her that much. In other occasions I would hit my head to the wall for letting such a cute girl go away.

Anyway, you got to fix it and the sooner you start the better. The longer you wait to fix it, the more difficult it gets for you to get over your problem. At the moment I am 32 years old. I started fixing this issue too late and I can tell you it is a real pain in the ass to solve it now, though I am doing everything I can to do so.

There are some things I could advise you that might help you.

- One of the things that helped me to at least behave normal around women, is to walk in shopping malls and ask women for directions and the time. If you are to afraid to do this, start approaching men. After you asked a few men for the time and directions you will feel more sociable and feel less fear to approach women. If you are scared to approach a hot woman, try to approach an ugly woman. Next time try to ask a more better looking woman. Try to enter shops with hired guns and say "Hi" to them when you enter and look at them. If possible, try to ask her questions about the clothes, food, shoes, ... they are selling.

- You might still be too young but when you are 20 you can probably do speed dating events. I never did it myself but I have the feeling this will improve your confidence around women. You will get used to talk to maybe 20 women in 1 night which will eventually lower your nervousness around women. You might even date one of these women which could give you another confident boost about yourself.

- If you really like some girl in your classroom but you are too afraid to tell her this in her face ... you could write something on a paper and put it on her desk. This is much easier than telling her in the face that you like her back. It can even be something simple like:

"You are really cute. Call me. Oz. 'your number' "