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| P1nkstar | PostPosted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 11:42 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Mon Nov 08, 2010 9:11 am Posts: 298 | | Situation...
Good girl, relationship for 2 yrs.
We had a big arguement couple weeks ago (made a post about it)
Since then, things haven't been the same, i know the 2 yr barrier is a diffucult one, seems like i'm not going to make it.
I feel like we're not a team anymore.
Yesterday we where at a bar, they (her and her friend) left without even telling me, leaving me alone in the bar, i ran behind her, like a fucking dog. They plan a vacation with couple of ppl, i'm not included. If we are with 3 she cummunicates allmost everything, her planning etc with her friend, never including me... i feel like a fucking beta undergoing this... fuck that!
She was supposed to sleep with me this night... told her to fuck off, since she ran withouth saying a thing, sended her a txt this mornin we need to talk, this place, this time... she figures what is going to happen...
just needed to write this down, thanks for listening.
fuuuuuuuuck relationships!
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| shes_tripped | PostPosted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 11:50 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Mar 08, 2012 10:46 am Posts: 21 | | annoying situation man.. but to be clear do you want to be with her or not ? sounds like shes being a bit of a bitch to you in my opinion, reminds me of a girl i used to see ... it didnt work out , shits weak when she leaves a bar without saying shit to you or plans things infront of you , kinda like sending a subliminal mesage .. hope ur ok tho let me know ur next move
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| xcalibar | PostPosted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 9:00 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Jan 30, 2012 4:31 pm Posts: 65 | | wow sound really harsh, You are doing the right thing. Just get rid of her and freeze her out.
But before you do, how did you get to this point in your relationship, might be a good time to reflect, she lost interest somewhere... seems quite harsh for someone to just lose it.
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| Lips_and_Hips | PostPosted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 9:24 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Thu Sep 03, 2009 7:44 am Posts: 248 | | Sounds like she is being a bitch - have you done something to offend her?
You guys have been together for 2 years, so I agree with xcalibar - you should reflect on your relationship and try and pinpoint what triggered this kind of behaviour. It could be something you did, but it could be something totally unrelated and she is acting out towards you because you are the closest thing she has.
When someone very close to me was slowly dying from cancer, I unintentionally acted out towards my then boyfriend. It was nothing to do with him, but I just felt that he didn't understand what I was going through. He admitted he didn't and we worked through it together.
Think about what has made you and her stay together for 2 years - has she changed that much? Or is this just a temporary glitch? Relationships require work, but they need to be fun as well. You need to weigh up whether or not she is worth the work or if this really is it.
Good luck! _________________ ....Thought you might like a girl's opinion....
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| Snake Doctor | PostPosted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 9:50 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Mon Jan 18, 2010 7:57 pm Posts: 797 Location: Portugal | | You should tell her right away that she is being disrepctfull bitch.
Tell her "that she should reflect on her actions, and maybe some time apart to understand what you guys feel"
You freeze her out continue with your life, if she comebacks and you still like her and her atitude changed. You avaliate her situation _________________ Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!
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