I got this alternative goth gf that when I started dating her she was a nympho. She and I would have sex like 12-16 times a week. Now I see her every week end and she doesnt even seem in the mood anymore. We have been going out for over a year and she says that I am the only man to ever satisfy her and that she loves me. But I cant seem to get her interested sexually in me anymore.


Anyone know how I can get the flame of passion back into the bedroom? or the kitchen, or the backseat of the car? I really need help with this, I dont want this relationship to fall apart cause of lack of sexual interest on her side.

Try different things!
Try outside - thats always a good 1! With the thought of getting caught it drives them crazy!
Using Toys - ASk her to perform for you cos it'll turn you on!
Anal!? - If she doesnt already, try and get her to do it.... Something Different!
Watching Porn Together - My ex used to love that!!!
** Ask her if she wants to experiment!! **

Climax

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The stuff Climax said are true =) but he missed a few pointers..some chicks love controll try giving her the illusion she's the one decided what will happen as long as you make sure that your in charge.

Roleplay? try this might spice shit up for you.

or if you want it simple just go and buy a board game, thats a bit umm more erotic..hope you get what i mean =) anyway this stuff works since the game will be doing the commanding you just follow and enjoy =)

B

hey thanks guys. Im gonna try the board game idea and when it gets warmer outside maybe have sex in the woods. But I tried a couple times to fuck my girl up the butt. Once when she was really in the mood she kinda enjoyed it but more than most it hurt and bothered her. I used enough lube. She just felt like she was taking a huge shit but backwards. Any help with that one any one?

Yeah. Get her to sit on top of you - that way she is in control (At 1st! :p) anbd she can control it so you take it easy for a while - Once she's used to it then, just go like a bat outta hell!
Thats what i usually do with my girl - if you start in doggy or standing up - it temds to be an uphill battle cos she constantly stops

Either that of get her hammered! :p

Climax

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"Women are Just as Bad As Men - They're Just Better At Hidding it! So Let's Exploit that!"

id try the porno idea i had sucsess just showing my ex the movie 300 which had a soft porno scene in the beginning that got her wild se was good but what sucked is I missed most of the movie and it was pay per view

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TBH - it sounds like she was using sex as a tool, perhaps to make her feel happier about herself, perhaps to get your attention.

Now she doesn't need to use it in this way so she's stopped.

Talk about and remind her why she wanted you in the first place.
Ask her what was her first impression of you, and ask her when was the moment when she knew she wanted you in bed-talk about the things at the beginning of the relationship that sparked everything and got her going. This will bring all the feelings and emotions back.
She fancies the 'you' when you first met. Have you changed at all? Are you treating her too nice now? Treat her how you did when you first met her - tease her, etc.
Maybe stop trying to do things with her - wait patiently for her come to you.

Another thing that is great is having a camera or vid corder start to record tell her o yea thats so good great, you look so hot, you know the kind of stuff just make her feel good. It can lead to some mad stuff just having it recorded also it can be great to spark off more sex for you can turn on the video you and her. This is how i got past my chick who hated me watching porn so instead i included her.

O yea a nimpho has to do with the genital stage in a persons development this is the stage at which the person discoveres there sexual organs and starts to play. There are three stages anal, oral and genital. This basically means that your girlfriend has an inbuilt neurosis resulting from a probable repression which is formulating within her mind to make her a nimpho. The important thing for you is that you were getting laid and now you are not. What changed? So thats what you have to look for change within her, has she used this former crutch of sex which formerly took her away from her issues and turned to a new crutch? Has her attitude changed? Started taking more or any alcohol or drugs? Whatever man. The likelyhood is that she has changed her former sex longing to something else or else shes getting it somewhere else.

ciao

"I dont want this relationship to fall apart cause of lack of sexual interest on her side"

It sounds like to me it already has.

I understand wanting to hold onto something that was great, but what if it doesn't come back? It sounds like she hit your hook point with the poon and now she's the one running the push-pull routine.

Maybe you need to give her the old, "Let's see other people" speech. Maybe you railing some other HB will get her juices flowing again. If not, maybe it's really time to move on.

Go to fetish clubs together. As a goth she will love this...

Or if you want ot be really harsh, dump her for another girl. She will love&hate you forever. But then again not very healthy for a relationship haha.


Seriously though, is she more submissive or dominant in bed?

You're just talking about you satisfying her need's. What about yours?

I think you should try to talk more about what you want. Be a little dominant and ego, it might turn her on. If you just satisfy her needs in bed, it can get quite boring when she always gets what she wants.

Good luck! =)

Look.. take control, don't let sex become routine.. that's when they fall off...


Surprise her one night, and tell her that you're going to do something you've always wanted tonight.. or something like that...
act out fantasies, tie her up, tease and please her... but leave her wanting more..

Add spice, man ;P


For inspiration, and I feel I'm repeating myself =P, look into the David Shade's Manual..

Seriously, most women love being dominated... having the man lead.
Take the power back =P
and show that you're fit to lead her into new experiences with a steady, adventurous spirit.
You set the frame... Just make it really enjoyable

hahaha hit is for leonitus haha to funny.