Here's the situation, I was with a lady last night and it seemed everytime I went a step further I was getting LMR. Hell, even before she came over she was trying to tell me she didn't kiss on the first date. So we're in bed and I go to touch her somewhere, and I get LMR. I go to take her top off, LMR. I do a freeze out for a bit and that helps for a while.
Then I go to take her jeans off, then I get the LMR of "We shouldn't be doing this." I take them off while agreeing, "you're right we probably shouldn't." And I kept going.
Until, it comes to the act of doing it. Then I get the typical LMR where she's worried she'll never hear from me again.
Right then I, say, "It just feels right!" HB-"What if you don't call?" What are you doing on Sunday? HB-Nothing. J SMOOTH-Great I'm coming over then.
. LMR was destroyed she felt comfortable and everything else was easier.
Using a time-bridge, setting up a follow up date made her feel more comfortable because she knew, she was going to see me again.
CHAT
