Well, its almost time for me to go back to Germany. So its time to get back into the game. Well to tell the truth I didn't just up and leave. I used the past 10 months to study a little at least. Worked my way through most of what I could find from RSD.

Well as a general overall update, this deployment has changed my view on the world. You cant believe how relaxed I was when I went back to the states on mid-tour leave. I will admit I kinda rubbed peoples faces in it. Probably came off like I was high, won't way I wasn't or that I was, but I was unbelievably happy. I've improved my relationships with my sister and mother.

But I am looking forward to going back to Germany. Doesn't hurt that German girls love black guys. Also are kinda crazy, but thats on a completely different note. Right now I'm reviewing what I have from RSD. I have at least 9 more days of 12 hour shifts with at least 8 hours of free time, so why not

I almost forgot to post the progress that I've seen in my self. I try to be honest honest with myself a no bullcrap assessment:

Opening: I've improved beyond a doubt. I have zero issue with opening now. The mental aspect really has helped. So far from my little exp. I've learned that it doesn't really matter what you say to open as long as you can keep talking. And didn't try the same line on the girls friend the weekend before. ( That was a fun time. Girls talk go figure and BlackIce and I made enough of an impression to tell her friends about it)

The filler: What can I say, I know you can break it down into smaller chunks but I personally don't agree with sequening it. Real life doesn't always go 1-4, sometimes 2 comes before 1. But I can talk, not run out of things to say, keep it intresting for both of us, and actually have a non-offensive talk with her. I learned the hard way to keep way from the subjects of god, and anything that remotely resembles womens rights. (Chick kinda freaked out on me.)

Number: I now can get the number, and sofar the ones that I've called back have been the real. But what I do need to work on is the call back. What can I say I didn't really call them back. I put the work in at the club and relise that, but if you don't follow up, why bother in the first place. The call back will be my key point for at least the first two weeks after or untill I can get it down, which ever is longer.

Kiss: This one I find fun. Women really don't like being told that they are bad kissers. I actually got a make out in 15 minutes in before deployment that way. I'm not saying she even liked me, but she did.

Venue changing: This is also something I REALLY need to work at. This one I will work on, but I know I have to be not careful but cautious with. Just because I'm on the ball at one means that I need to keep the energy that I had going in one place with me to the other.

Lay: This goes with venue changing. To be honest I'm not worried about getting layed. When I go out at night, I drop it out of my mind. Its the goal, but I'm not worried about it. But as they say: Your not a PUA untill you get the lays.

Energy: I defently have a high energy out put when I'm in the bar/ club. But I like it. By high energy I don't mean that I twitch when I talk to people and cant sit still. I pop around like a ping pong ball actually. But I'm not just wasting energy. I'm going about talking to people. By the end of the night I've talked to at least 1/2 of the club/ bar.

Alight, I'm in the middle of a new program and I had to stop, because I just had the same feeling as when I first picked up The Game and started reading. It blew my mind that this whole life style is a field of study. I love it.

So I just started going through two new programs. Social Domination and Social Circle Mastery. (Social Domination is the quick version and somewhat dumbed down version of Social Cirle Mastery. Its about how to get into higher venues and such. Really quick.)

Social Circle Mastery on the other hand brakes it down. I'm only 30 minutes into it and my head is spinning.

It always astounds me the fields of study that go into the game. I personally want to become a natural and drop all routines as I have previously stated in an earlier post. To me this is the RSD of interpersonal relationships sofar. Like I said I've only gotten a half an hour into it, but I can see the ways it that it can apply outside of pick up. (Life in the army is all about who you know.)

This is something that I want to apply whole heartedly to my life style.

I still thank what ever invisable diety that you pray to that this hasn't gone more mainstream yet. I've only had one person ever mention anything to me about pick up. (He was talking about the Mystery Method)

Alright, I have been keeping up with my nights out. I haven't just lazied off for the past month, I just haven't posted.

So, first thing first. I probably need to stop drinking when I go out. It's an army thing. The two times I drink the most are before and after deployment and right now I'm just getting back from leave. I have another 2 days till I come off of leave and I won't be touching a bottle for a while.

But I digress. My nights out have been fun. To behonest my biggest set back is that I don't speak German. It really doesn't help when talking to a girl if you don't speak their language.

So its been a fun month. It's taught me the uses of making sure that your wingman is reliable. I had to drag one back to his room because he was so drunk that he couldn't stand. Another one that reminds me of well myself before I started doing this. Trying to bring him up a bit.

I have been going out and building my social circle. When I go out I will run into some chick I know that usually likes me and will introduce me to her single friends.

And I have been working on my numbers. Its mostly texting but I make sure its funny or odd, because well thats my personality. Although I've been doing Bardocks text game, not all of it but then again I need to review. But I'm not texting right back. I give it 10 minutes to 5 hours. Most girls will text me back immedately.

Alright, I have somethings to improve upon. Texting I'm still working on. I keep up on it if I honestly feel like texting them. (There isn't unlimited texting here and I'm a little poor. Dollars to Euros sucks).

Another thing I need to work on is my body language. I don't come off creepy, which is a good thing, I just come off a little gay. And by a little I mean a lot. As soon as a girl starts with "Can I ask you a question" I don't even wait for them to finish it at this point. I just straight up say I'm not gay. It defenitly has to do with my manorisms.

But things are getting better, when I first get into a bar downtown where I'm living, I cant get 10 feet with out some random chick running up and screaming my name and hugging me. I don't discriminate when making friends.

Still my favorite moment from the past 2 months was last night/this morning. I was walking into a bar, got 2 steps through the door and saw this chick I know. I want to say her name is Samantha, or Leanna. One of the two, HB6-7 cute enough. She runs up hugs me, and says I'm cold. So I warm up my ears on either side of her head (mind you she's like 1 1/2 heads shorter then I am). Then she starts kissing me and basicly dry humping me in in effort to "warm me up" after that I want to say I really had to use the bathroom, and had to break it off. And ofcourse she dissapeared by the time I got back. But still the change from when I started this to now alone is phanominal

Alright I went out last night and for a change wasn't absolutely bottom of the bottle drunk, it was a nice change. Its not that I wasn't drinking I just didn't drink alot. But I will say I did have fun. I actually ended up getting a girl that works at the gas station I go to to pimp me out. I ended up messing it up by going to the bathroom and not going right back to the dance floor. Planing on going on out again tonight

Alright I'm back at it. Been back in the States for about 10 months now, Fort Polk, but also brought back a bit of a drinking problem from Germany. I remember seeing in a video that friends would look and think that you’re having great success with women when getting none. That is me at the moment. But I stopped drinking and going out for 5 1/2 months now.

So I've finally been getting back at it. I have to get over AA a little again. I don't want to do approaches. It’s not actually the beginning of the conversation, its bout 30 sec. I've went out twice in the past week. The first time I didn't talk to anyone.

Last night I went out and ran into some a guy from my work. It’s a small area outside of post so it happens. We played some beer pong (every game I played I won. WOOT!). I ended up babysitting for him when he started projectile vomiting in the bathroom. But that is beside the point. I got myself a Thundercats shirt, just the symbol on a black tee. I was walking from the bathroom back when a 6/10 stopped me. She stated saying something about wearing similar items when she was wearing GI Joe. So I started saying that she looked like Destro, and of course had a back and forth about it. She was there with another guy whom it didn't feel like it was her boyfriend.
The whole interaction wasn’t the best, I didn't close or get her number, and I meant to get it but drunk babysitting and taking people home. I do need to work on how I talk, she said I seemed rude, but she kept talking to me. What I did do well with kino. I wasn't groapy but did keep up contact and close face proximity. I also did well with her bullshit test though. I would piss her off significantly and she would say "You're dismissed." I looked at her like she had a horn growing out of her head, said that's not how this works and kept talking.

I need to get a local wing. But any suggestions or advice is always appreciated.

Alright, last night I made one approach and it lasted for 3 hours. No close or number but I know where I went wrong. I needed to move them. I did work on kino though and tossing sex into the conversation. I was really touchy and I still cant believe that I got away with it. But I also didn't make a big deal about it.

I went out from about 10-12 tonight. I came home early. I can make excuses but really, I should still be out right now.

But I had one approach again tonight and I think it went well. First bar I went to I didn't talk to anyone. The second though I was 3 minutes through the door when I made my approach. 3 minute story short,I circled the bar, spotted what would eventually become my target. Perfect opener for the moment "From 1-37, how much do you like the Viking guy." (Big white guy wearing Viking horns.) Fatty and HB7 gave low numbers, whatever, didn't matter I had my in. I honestly don't think they could hear anything after the first 15 minutes of me talking due to the music. But I came in high energy and continued for about an hour. I don't think I worked on fatty enough though. I did try to get her engaged but she didn't seem to want to.

There were some highlights: thumb war where I cheated to win, HB8 waitress that fucked with me every time she came around (I fucked with her back. Like the time she sat in my seat so I sat on top of her. She ended up biting me.), "Well if you did come out then you wouldn't have met this kinda funny, kinda quarky guy (something to the effect." And some other random things (like starting to do a cranial nerve exam) I had the million dollar mouth piece. Everything I was doing was because I thought it was fun.

I am proud of getting their numbers. I literally handed them my phone, just expecting them to punch in their number. My target did ignore her phone or would silence it the entire time I was talking with/at her.