I have a girl at the moment who is hot and she absolutely adores me... but sinc ei have been with her more girls are interested some of them are hotter then my current gf but i know they wont adore me as much as she does and are not as easy to get along with?

1.stay with the girl who adored me and makes me laugh...

2. risk the girls who are hotter but not sure they will last as long or adore me as much as her? one of which is an girl i wanted before she is so hot but screwed me about but now is saying she wants to make up for what she did before?

any advice?

a mistake men make all to often, is to get greedy. if she's attractive, adores you, and makes you laugh, it sounds pretty ideal man. also you even admit these other girls arent as easy to get along with...sounds like you already know what you want. youre window shopping for shit you dont need! be happy with what you have, provided it makes you happy.

You're getting massive social proof from the girl who adores you brother.

I say, make the other girls, who are incidentally hotter, chase you some more. Say things like: "I'm loyal and faithful to x. She cooks the best meals, gives the greatest blowjob, super awesome in bed..." And so on. Tell all these girls who are hitting on you how great she is and that you're very loyal and faithful to her.

This will drive the hotter girls crazy and will want you more. They will literally be begging to sleepover your place and seduce you. However, don't be an easy kill for the girl who adores you or the even hotter girls.

With this strategy, the girl who adores you will adore you more since other girls want you and she'll know that you're saying good things about her. You'll have sex on the side with the even hotter girls and it will be okay with them if you have multiple long term sexual relationships. Just be honest and be sure that you can handle this kind of situation.

Yet at the end of it all, stick with the one who adores you. She will forgive you. She will feel great once she knows that so many girls want you who are hotter than her and yet she is the WINNER when it came to you.

It's a happy problem brother. All men should experience this kind of situation at least once in their lives.

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awesome advice cheers bro

@Suarez-It'd be the worst mistake of your life.

Just days ago,I wrote an article on my blog(http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/)about hot girls suck at sex.

Not only the higher up you go does sex gets worst,but with everything else also.HB10's suck at sex,they're generally lazy,does nothing,has no ambition,more clingy,nasty(as far as lifestyle).There's no benefits in upgrading if you already have a hot chic.The higher you go,the worst the chic in every aspect.

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i recall rooshv saying to always go for the sure thing

The best advice I can give is to let go. Either way be comfortable with you decision, and don't think back on it as a what if. Make your decision, and let go.

Awesome advice.

Also: if your girl (whom I agree you should NOT dump) can be improved lookswise, for example by losing weight, I would try to think of some ways to encourage this. American white girl are super sensitive about weight so I would NOT neg her about it. I've tried 'leading by example' - talk about my healthy eating habits and exercise regimen, which doubles as a DHV, and invite her hiking or to the gym with you - which seems to work well. Even if she figures out what you're doing, she likely won't call you out on it, because that would be more embarrassing for her than for you.

Weight loss is a slow process though, so this is only LTR advice. But it sounds like you have and want her for a LTR.

If it's still like her dress, how she does her hair, etc. that you can probably neg her on (or do jealousy ploys by casually pointing out example of stuff you see ' - hey see her hair, yours would look cool that way' etc.)

If it's immutable stuff like facial structure and breast size..oh well.

No matter what choice you make, completely drop the hot girl that flaked on you before. She hasn't forgotten she screwed you over once and she never will. Now that you've climbed the ladder of social proof and your stock has gone up, she probably wants to shit test you again because it would mean that her stock has gone up as well-don't give her that satisfaction, show her you're smarter and stronger now.