Right....

So, after i broke up with my cheating ex. I started hanging out with her flat mate. She's the PERFECT girl. Like the girl you would want to marry!

Anyways, I was just happy being friends with her, and she kept coming over to hang out with me. So anyway, I leave uni for a few weeks to attend a family matter and we text each other loads! chat on the phone etc.. as well.

Last week end she tells me she likes me, and comes out straight, so i said, yeah i like you as well larlarlarlar, before this I had thought about fucking her, but not really seen much attraction at the moment because the whole time I spent with her we spoke about my ex, and i was still focussed on her. She was hinting sex, wanting more, wrapped round my finger....

So she was going to come visit me over easter... until today....

She was being a bit full on for me so my texts were more brief and less frequent. Then I thought I might say something about my ex, so she doesnt come on so strong, and yeah, it backfired, and she said that she doesnt think we should text so much if im still having feelings about my ex (which i wasnt i just said that i was pissed off with how she made me feel today)

so i said... im glad we can tone it down etc.. and i really like you as a friend etc but i dont want to go in so deep, i just wanna hang out and see how it goes....

then she started saying i was leading her on, and then its as though I was asking her for another chance and she was being totally cool about it :S lol.

So there was no changing her mind so i said, sorry lets just be friends, good friends , and she said yeah, i like you but you need to be over slutface and your going to america next month for the summer so we will see when you get back if you like me still etc...

Thing is..... I do wanna meet her next week, and see how it goes, possibly get some without being a cunt, because I do like her as a friend, and the night i met her and my ex, i noticed her first, but then she went off and my ex leached onto me... my ex is fucking hot but was shyer so i didnt notice her. Anyway... I don't want to be a cunt, just wanna hang out and see how things go, i know she would do friends with benefits because she said in the passed, but latly she was saying she would only open her legs for the guy she fancied (me).

But as i said, she's helped me out ALOT, and shes a really good friend. I kinda need to get her in the mode to fuck me, but just keep friendship. She said the other day that we cant have sex because sex for girls is emotional and she cant have me breaking her heart. I think it can though

Any ideas on what to do? or should I just leaver her.

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Law of Attraction

Hang out with her. Seduce her. Kino and escalate. Fuck her.

Don't overthink this. She wants to have sex with you. Oblige her.

Don't worry about ruining a friendship. Let her worry about it. Hell, if your ex found out about her coming onto you, she'd be furious.

At the very least, it's a revenge fuck. Nothing wrong with that!

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'

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He doesn't have to marry the girl. She's interested in him. Wrinkle some sheets!

Why should guilt enter into the equation? The girl is going behind her friend's back to try and sleep with her friend's ex-boyfriend.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

let these feelings of hurting her and such go..
use some game, seduce her, fuck her and then whatever happens after that will be her problem. Unless you want to be with this chick for a long time then why bring feelings into the matter

Thing is this girl is a really nice girl. She has done me a massive life favour which I can always thank her for. I can't fuck her over. Otherwise I would be the biggest cunt around.

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Isn't that the risk you take in sleeping with any girl, though? That you could hurt her feelings one day because you guys don't become exclusive?

You know you want to sleep with her. And you will. Cross that other bridge when you get to it.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

as an update. Kinda didn't talk to her for a day, then went into beta mode for a bit. I kinda thought, if I get her on side, then the beta mode will be cancelled out by the distance thing SPAM as I thought she might rebel just to fuck me off.

Anyway, she went out last night, and it had worked, she then rang me up at midnight saying she was bored so came home and we spoke for an hour and a half. Went passed really fast. Seeing her next week hopefully. See where things go.

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Well i had a similar situation with a girl who was really nice and had done a lot for me but i knew i wouldnt stay with her forever and lets face it, im a guy and i want to fuck other chicks aswell. Anyway i got with her, had sex and ended up getting with her for maybe two weeks. The way i solved this problem without looking like a complete cunt was that i gave her reasons to not want to be with me. Not bad reasons but just small things that really annoy people. In the end she said she didnt want a relationship but wanted to still be friends and i got off looking like the guy who didnt want the break up. Social engineering mixed with game is a very good mix my friend, use it.

Yeah, I was thinking of doing this ^^^ lol

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If you want to her to be sexually attracted all you have to do is sexually tease her a bit. Ask if she wants to go somewhere before you leave. Take her out somewhere completely casual with no pressure involved. Go for a walk seriously nothing major.

Then just escalate, and go in for a kiss but whisper something in her ear instead, than at times just turn her around so she faces you, look her in the eye, than grab her and pick her up and just run a few steps and shell scream than drop her. Than you can move her hair and kiss her.

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

she is sexually attracted^^^

Got her back to wanting me, I told her i wanna take it slower. Seeing her next week so... hopefully a cheeky bj

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Law of Attraction

This is where Dr. Marston's advice would come in handy. I suggest you read his artciles.

You can email/PM me, and I'll send you free copies!

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Athena's wisdom be with you,

---BJ,
Wonder Woman's #1 Loverboy...aficionado & expert.

What I like most about Hero Zero is that the in game coins are much useful compared to other browser games.

ended up fucking her, lol, think i did another post about it.

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