Still no reply... Is there another reopener I can use? or do you think I should wait some more? I really dont want to screw this up since shes the hottest HB I know on Facebook.

Btw I sent her a friend request right after my last msg, (she hasnt accepted yet) could I say something on the lines of "lets you and me be friends and we can work out our differences" or something like that.

What do you usually say the terms of the bet are?

I've pacified one about as long as I can and it's actually boring me.

I use a simple opener that has been working for me for a while I usually say "are you worth knowing?"

Me:
Hey i would remove that picture from your profile...

Girl:
And what picture would that be?

Me:
Lol, I was only joking, you look like the type of girl who can take a joke... Or am I wrong?

Girl 3/30/2012 1:08:27 AM
Yeah course i can take a joke lol


Me 3/30/2012 1:16:26 AM
Good, that's something important to be able to do in life lol.

So you're a nurse? That must be really stressful at times...

Girl 3/30/2012 1:18:49 AM
Yeah it can be indeed but i love my job and someones gotta do it lol


Me 3/30/2012 1:36:14 AM
Yep they sure do, otherwise I wouldn't have much faith in our health care system lol

I see you don't know what your goals are in life? I couldn't be like that - i'd never have got as far with
my business without having goals

Girl 3/30/2012 1:40:57 AM
Goals work for some ppl, I had certain goals and they fell apart, the ones that were important have been achieved. in ways I just take things as they come now, it's better that way for me


Me 3/30/2012 1:50:42 AM
Well that's good that you've achieved the ones that are important to you, well done

i'm gonna guess that when your goals fell apart it was something to do with your 7 year relationship?
I'm not going to be nosey though...

Girl 3/30/2012 1:55:14 AM
Yeah it did indeed, everything fell apart then 4 a while. I had other bigger stuff goin on with myself as well which affected things. I might not have been here 2 have goals! My ex fiancé left when the goin got tough!!


Me 3/30/2012 2:11:05 AM
Wow, that sounds really bad, obviously I don't know what the situation was but you have my
sympathy. However, you seem like the type of girl who's come out stronger from whatever
happened.

Girlsname (i'm guessing) i've gotta go, i'm really tired after working all day. We should get chatting
again, however, I'm out all day tomorrow, what's your number and i'll give you a text?

Girl 3/30/2012 2:17:05 AM
I'm stronger than ever alrite its Girlsname no Girlsnameguess pls. Em ok no problem it's number. Nite.


Me 3/30/2012 2:22:33 AM
Oh, i apologise Girlsname! Lol. Thanks, have a good day tomorrow, good night!

I'd like to add my experiences due to this line.

I've been using POF for months and had no success until recently. I've only met up with 1 girls - not via this line.

However yesterday i used this line for the first time on 6 girls, 5 have replied. I've been able to take the convo further with 2 of them so far, 2 i've kept waiting for a reply and 1 gave up the convo after I played the second line.

I only found this forum 2 days ago and have put every good bit of advice into place. Yesterday i done my first ever number close on a HB6-7. Convo is as follows:

It really is amazing to see the power of this line, i've had girls put up more pictures because of it and such a high % of replies. If you're having problems after the first & second lines then I suggest you look at your conversation tactics - i simply take as much info from the profile as possible and play around it.

P.s. the girl who responded at first and then stopped the convo just replied again. Time to work the magic...

I failed big time with this opener. Both POF and OKCupid. All I get is "???" and never get the second message. I messaged like 30 girls so far. Maybe it's cause of my location. I mean I was getting better response rate with regular openings. What am I doing wrong?