Okay, I'm an 18 year old freshmen going to a community college. I just recently got out of a 3-4 month long relationship.

In one of my classes I sit behind a girl that I have become attracted to. At first I really wasn't interested, because I was seeing someone else, but I have over the last couple weeks started to really dig this girl.

It was a late start college class - we meet once a week and we have only met about 7 times in total.

Over the last couple weeks I have started to pick up conversation with her, before we would just do very small talk about how much they class sucked, etc.

This girl had been very shy like she was intimidated by me. I have gotten some good EC from her and a few IOI's.. (I'm pretty sure her pupils dilated)

Anyways, last week I teased her a little bit about me finishing a test before her, and a few other things, but she seemed very shy still.

Yesterday, I walked into class, sat down she came in a little behind me and just started talking and was really OUTGOING. This caught me totally off guard.. So, I started talking to her more asking her questions and she started to come out of her shell. The class is small about 30 people and it is a lecture type so we can't really carry a conversation for a long time.

But towards the very end of the class someone in the class asked me why I had missed a prior class a few weeks ago - I explained & this girl randomly tells me she missed a class, because someone died in her family (I don't even remember what she said? I think an uncle?) I took this as a good sign. She was very shy before, and now is telling me about how a relative died? WTF? Who does that?

What do you guys think? Do you think she is interested?

I'm thinking about direct closing this shit next week if the opportunity prevents itself. There is only a few classes left - so I'm not going to fuck around with this girl anymore.

haha yea man haha you know what you built comfort some how and thats the REASON. Now its time to seduce her. You should take charge now. becareful tho if you game her SHE MIGHT FALL FOR YOU HARD! i stay away from those hahah good luck. Artist

p.s i think she might be one of those crazy girls becareful

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I'm not even too sure how I built the comfort, but I noticed I was not at all nervous with this girl & had some amazing body language. It must have rubbed off.

I did some myspace lurking and found out she is a church type girl - seems like a sweet girl. Might be a freak, but I don't mind. She had barely any male interaction on her myspace or facebook and the males that did post on it were just church friends.

shex, welcome to the forum.

A shy church girl? Watch out. You f-close her and you may have a tiger on your hands.

When she threw out the info that she had missed a class too, that was an IOI. She did that basically to match you, to say "hey we've got this in common, check it out". The reason was kind of immaterial, at this point anyway.

Yes man, she likes you. Next time you see her, number close her.

lol @ the tiger comment.. I could definitely see it.

I should have # closed the other day.. Now I am pissed I have to wait another week. God damnit. Oh well.

About the missing the class IOI..

I have become friends with another guy in the class (possible new wing) and I had told him a couple weeks prior why I had missed, because a family member got real sick. He then asked me the other day if I told the teacher why I missed and did I get it excused. I told him "Yeah, I had a good excuse though." This is when she looked at me and told me about her uncle's death. (This was in a group type setting - about 5 of us)

Still an IOI, right?

Yes, still an IOI because she's still trying to in effect say "hey look, we have this in common!" I figured before that you were talking about a group setting, but I assumed it was in the actual class.

*Update*

Probably one of my favorite number closes even though I'm not sure how it happened and if I will pursue it or even if she wants me to. Kinda weird.

Anyways, I walked into class - HB comes in a few minutes later and starts chatting it up with me.. This teacher is always late.. And if he's more than 15 minutes late we are allowed to sign a paper and leave.. Well, we needed to get the answers for the final, so it was an important class.

I tell the girl that she should stay for the 3 hours and I should leave and then she can give me the answers later. She says it should be other way around - I said I don't think so, and ask for the phone #.

Now, I don't remember what she said at this point, but I *think* she said something about her leaving and just getting the answers from actually doing the work.

She starts writing I sit back relaxed just laughing in my head while these 4 other guys and like 3 other people are looking at me in amazement. Like I am the man. (which I am obviously)

"HB's name - # - & she wrote the name of the class on the paper, lol"

Then we get up to walk out, but the teacher walks in. So, we couldn't leave. So, we both stayed the entire class and I built more comfort with her and talked to her more.

Now, I am 99.9% sure this girl likes me, but I'm not sure if she gave me her phone #, because she wanted me to call her or just for the answers.

We ended the class and she parked at opposite sides and got dismissed earlier than me, so I never found out and I think I'm going to wait until we meet in class again to call her or it might be weird.

Thoughts/Advice?

No, you DON'T wait for the next class. She gave you her number because she wants you to call. Period.

I had a girl tonight ask me why I haven't called her since she gave me her number a week or two ago (don't even remember how long it's been), and I was honest. Told her I've had so much going on that I forgot. She wanted to talk to me for a bit, so I talked, then said I needed to go. She wants me to call. And, she's an 8 and actually usually likes black guys.

So, call her.

Hmm.. You don't think the circumstances are a little weird? I am getting mixed opinions on this from some of my friends.. Some agree with you while others say to just wait.

I won't have time to meet with her over the weekend due to work and other plans. So, it may not make sense to call her since I can't really set up anything before class on Tuesday. If I go to class on Tuesday and be direct with what my intentions are and then tell her I want to see her again. Should I ask for the phone # again or would I be better off saying "I already have your # I will give you a call".

Look man, you're getting opinion from guys that probably aren't PUA's or even wanna be PUA's. Sorry, but I'm sure that's true. Believe what you want. I'm telling you what in my experience has worked. She gave you her number because she wants you to call. Period. It doesn't matter if you can actually get together with her before then or not. She wants to talk to you, so talk to her. Build comfort and attraction over the phone. Simple as that. Next time you see her, you'll be further along in the process.

This is how girls are "wired".

Why are the circumstances "wierd"?

I say, Follow the advice of tripp. This girl has some sort of attraction for you, and just game her and focus on your goal.

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Let me start off by saying I appreciate your advice. I really do.

What I mean by the circumstances being weird is how I wasn't direct with my intentions when I asked for the #. When I asked for the # she may have just given it so she didn't have to do all the work and we can split it up.

As I am typing this I realize how big of a pussy I am being and I am literally laughing, because this is not me at all. These fucking shy church girls man.

Thank you for making me realize how much of a pussy I am being.

LMAO. No problem dude. That's what I'm here for.

So, you're gonna call her . . . RIGHT? lol.

Yeah, I work all weekend so probably Sunday night.

What an absolute train wreck of a past 48 hours for me.

I called this girl sunday night - no answer - she does work 2 jobs so she probably was at work. She didn't know my # so I didn't expect her to call back. She didn't.

So, yesterday was the last class I was going to see her and it's also the final. One of my buddy's wrecked his car and needed me to pick him up before the class so I did that and ended up being about 15 minutes late for the final.

I walk into the class and the entire class is taking the final. I sit down and start taking my final. About 10 minutes later she is done & I was about 12 questions in. Fuck. She hands her shit in and grabs her pursue and I give her the eye contact and she gives it back. I couldn't say shit, because the teacher is paranoid and assumes everyone is cheating. She walks out. Fuck.

After that I went to a coffee shop with a friend and got totally cock blocked just to end the night on a high note. I approached a HB that was in a group of 10 and was running game well when my wing totally fucked it for me. It was the most ridiculous thing I have ever seen. I'm not even going to explain that one. I think I will stick to gaming solo for now on. Fuck.

Needless to say I have to either call the girl from the class tomorrow or look like a stalker and show up at her work.