Bit of background, met this girl in the street 2 weeks ago tomorrow, 2-3minutes then got her number, she's a genuinely busy girl (final year of law degree with exams coming up) thus I've been having a little trouble keeping in regular contact (I've done a couple of freeze-outs already). So yesterday after a week long freeze out I text her:
Me - haha I just made you look at your phone for no reason :p
she's texts back almost instantly
Her - cheers gayness
how are you doing? (evidently not as busy as SOME of us) :p x
Me - You're welcome homo
ahem I'm soooo busy, got some CRAZY things happening, I'd tell you what but I don't think you could handle it, being a librarian after all
x
Librarian bit is an in joke coz she's always studying. With this text I was trying to bait her into "challenging me" saying she can handle or something like that, instead though.
Her - Ooooo sounds like some good shizzle! Share the neeeeeeews! Soundchecking funtimes? I may not be able to handle it...what with you being so evidently more 'cool and crazy' than me! x
The last message came like 9 hours later or so, and basically every instinct in me is saying that the second half of her message is a clever shit-test and I'm not sure how to deal with it. First though was to just keep it going and say something like "yeah you know I'm much cooler than you" or whatever but I've done this a couple of times now and it's beginning to wear a little thin in m opinion. Basically in this text convo (ultimately) I wanna try to build up attraction and wrestle back some more 'control' as it were, then call her tomorrow to try and go for a drink on st patricks day. I feel I have enough comfort built already but need to spike her attraction a bit over the next day to get her to hang out.
Thoughts appreciated guys.
CHAT
" I've never met a girl that didn't absolutely LOVE disney so it's always a good conversational thread to go into.