I believe I am dealing with a good girl. She cheerleads though, so she shows off her abs...anywho.

Now before you bring out the pitchforks I must say in my defense I have never cheated on girlfriends before. In fact, I have always been a good moral person.

I have been single for 2 years now and have not wanted a relationship for that time. Then came along this one girl, I have known her for less than 3 weeks, I decided to give her chance and I started to treat her better than the other girls I had. Last Friday around 4 a.m. we came back from the club where I realized i liked her more than friends with benefits, I acted as the boyfriend role and she knew. We talked that night and talked about where I was at and should have taken the her word of 'lets do it when you're ready' but I being tired and drunk got me to call her my girlfriend that same night.

She left for spring break to go back home to her family that same day in the afternoon. My friend had a party that same day as well and I went. The fact that I was in a relationship again since two years had not sunk in fully and by the end of the night I was kissing this other girl(seen her around, so I don't know her, she doesn't go to my school but attends a few parties here and there). Then I stopped suddenly, which I was happy that I did. Ever since that incidence I have let all of the girls that have been pursuing me know that I have a girlfriend and that they should keep their sexuality to a minimum with me. Honestly, I should have waited a few days before closing the deal only to reprogram my mind from being a single guy to a committed guy. Now, do you believe this is something I should tell my 'girlfriend'? Would it be so bad to let this one go since it was very early in the relationship? I don't intend to do this ever again, since I don't do well with it as you can see. Any tips and tricks? I don't know this girl well enough and am not sure if honesty will go down well here. I think I can get over it, just need to find ways to do that

For the record: I am not afraid of losing this girl. So give me all the best possible scenarios you can give me. It's apparent that this girl likes me because she makes time for me and she cleaned my room even after she told me she does it only for the people she dates. She has already told me she has no 'expectations' because of past relationships when I asked her where she thought this was going.

If you're not afraid of losing this girl, why are you here? And why would you ask her where she thinks it's going if you don't ultimately care?

YOU asked her to be your girlfriend, drunk or not. Tired or not. That's a responsibility. It was your idea, not hers.

If you don't like this girl enough to be exclusive with her, tell her that. It's a waste of both your time to try and make it something it's not.

In the meantime, don't tell her you made out with another girl, but don't do it again either.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

its just a kiss. if she find out about it then say that you are drunk. or you can just tell her at the right timing, this can improve your image on her.

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