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I go out usually three times a week..I want to set up some dates and meet up after the numbers are gotten
The 3x/week part is very good. You should be getting at least 1 number a week at this stage.
DURING THE NIGHT, start building future events into conversation. If you play an instrument, see if she plays one and mention playing together, or coming to see you play a show. If shes into a certain band, talk about going to see them together. These events don't have to be realistic, you could talk about flying a space shuttle together, but imply that you want to see her again often.
FIRST TEXT, recall one of those jokes. "Just booked my tickets for the space shuttle, should I get you one?? -tremar" (the name at the end ensures there will be no "who is this?" text.)
TO SET UP THE DATE, make it sound fun. "We're going out to this club ___ tonight, you ever been?"
"It's amazing, imagine dancing on the bar with this huge crowd of people in front of you, everyone's laughing, the music is so loud and so good."
"Yeah, its great, you can definitely come along if you want, and bring friends if they want"