Ok so this may have underlying motivation but I recently decided to game the first girl I asked out who rejected me in seventh grade. We went to high school together occasionally talked but nothing meaningful.

She is big into baseball as am I (her yankees me red sox) and she always went for the athletic sports guys and I was the suit wearing drama/rat pack music geek. She was smart but pretty dumb if you catch my drift, and always showing off her body, low cut pants to reveal thongs etc. She knew it and exploited it rather frequently I feel anyway.

Regardless I decided to game her and was talking with my wing on how to go about it. While I'm at it I figured I'd get some advice and tips from you guys. This is my unicorn and while I'm sure there are plenty of women far hotter than this one, if I get this...well I don't think I really need to explain that one. The convo just started on FB and I'm holding off till the morning to reply. Here's where I'm at:

[6 hours ago
"Johnny Walker"

So I was going through my friends list and I remembered you from high school and man was I an asshole back then. Glad I grew out of that. What about you, what have you been up to?

47 minutes ago
"HB"

You remembered me from high school?? "Johnny" high school wasn't that long ago! I'm not sure anyone would have described you as an asshole though. Maybe rather odd, but not an asshole ha. You found my best friends dog, you were a hero! Anyhow, I'm just working I'm in (4-5 hours away from me, different state) and going rock climbing whenever I can! Life is pretty good [:)] . How about yourself??]

There is where I am at, and I'm looking forward to sharing the progress with you as it comes!

What is your end game with this? Because for me at least if a girl is 4/5 hours away from me I am not even going to bother with her I don't care who she is. That is just to far away for me. If your end game is just online gaming, it seems your on the right track just keep up the flirting.

avoid qualifying yourself to her like that

''I was an asshole back then''

don't talk about what you are like, and don't talk about what you do unless specifically asked, and it would be wise to want her to work a little bit to get that information from you, keep the focus on her and be proactive, if you want to relate to yourself, do it through story telling or stating preferences

@jurupa my endgame is a little vague, I would definitely like to f close eventually, but I'm in no rush. Hell maybe even date her simply because no one would believe it possibly leading to other opportunities. What I for sure want is to get her too the hook point where she is seeking me out.

@pumpington so 90 percent her 10 percent me is how i want to approach this at first. something like "big things a foot with me, but rock climbing huh that sounds interesting. how long you been doing that" sort of thing?

depends on where you want to take this, if you like rock climbing and want to talk about it, cool that works

pick something you are interested in and have to value to add to, so a hobbie you like, or something you do, or something you like, a preference towards something, you can use the rock climbing thread to multithread into something else that you are more sure about,

just bounce off what she says and thread into something you can talk about but keep the focus on her, adding your little tidbit every now and then, avoiding qualifying yourself beyond relating to her with stories,

example

''I'm great, alot of new things going on for me lately(she will ask you about if interested), you say you have been doing rock climbing?, wow, that's really adventurous, I love that, .... (lead in direction of something you want to talk about, get her talking in that direction, I used adventurous, you can use what ever you want, you can even stay on rock climbing if you want, just start a conversation)''

replied to her message that morning, its been a day and no response. here is what i sent.

[It seems real long ago when you're busy all the time, but I'm great. A lot of new things going on for me lately. You say you've been doing rock climbing? That sounds real exciting. I love to hike myself, just something about the landscape in the summer is real appealing.]

anyways no big deal and since i cant send a second message, im going to long fuse and slowly introduce myself to her with random comments on statuses etc...thats where i'm at now.

qualified yourself again, you want to be qualifieing her not yourself, state your preferences don't seek her approval

I love that (implying you love that ''she'' rock climbs has to do with her having your approval, rather then you seeking her approval)

vs

I love to hike myself (trying to qualify yourself to her, seeking her approval)

not that it is super important, if she is interested enough she will respond either way, but keep the focus off you

don't talk about what you are like, and don't talk about what you do unless specifically asked, and it would be wise to want her to work a little bit to get that information from you, keep the focus on her and be proactive, if you want to relate to yourself, do it through story telling or stating preferences

stating a preference and qualifying her to it would look more like,

I'm great. A lot of new things going on for me lately. You say you've been doing rock climbing? That sounds real exciting. I love doing stuff outdoors, hiking is totally awesome, do you hike by any chance?

(now the qualification shifts from ''I like to hike myself'' to baiting her into qualifying herself, that way you can compliment her for sharing a mutual interest with you and start talking about a topic that you both have in common if she takes the bait, either that or you can tease her and keep baiting for a topic you both find interesting, if she is not responding, then she is low interest

GOOD LUCK

She is low interest, it didn't pan out. I'll try again in a few months after I dhv'd more publicly that way when I attempt it again when she checks me out she can visualize it. That might help me not qualify as much. Thank you for your advice. I'll post here if anything changes or if I have more questions. Again I appreciate your help.