Ok guys basically about 4-5 years ago this girl was up at my college hanging out with some of her friends and we ended up just kissing a bit and sleeping together on the couch. Well she had a bf (a little shit) that somehow found out and got super pissed and wanted to fight me. I just ignored him pretty much but she just stopped acknowledging me at all. Like if we ran into each other not even a hello and she deleted me on facebook. She also did this to my buddy who was partying with us up at college. So I do the same I see her everyone now and again for a couple years and don't say much. About a month ago I was talking to a girl at the bar and she walks in and it happens to be her friend. She gives me a hug says hey and then goes with her friend to dance. I commented on a post yesterday which she also commented on and she immediately added me on FB.

Sorry for the long paragraph but it was such a weird situation and she is a real cute girl. I'm curious how I should try to get the lines of communication open again a wall post, private message or just go for quick number close and try to get lunch or something. Thanks.

Sarge on!

This is against the advice most puas would give. Your supposed to play cool and dominant, not showing any need for her replies or responses.

In this case however, you have a great chance to evoke emotions in her.

Maybe open her, preferably in person, or on facebook with a "So... deleting anyone on facebook recently?". She should either blush, get some chills or a bit of cold sweat, depending on how much impact you've made. The game is pretty much about awakening emotions in girls, anyway.

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Ya I was figuring something like that... Ideally I could do this in person but I don't see her out very often... I'm thinking something like "before I get deleted again shoot me your number so we can catch up sometime"

Better to wait for opportunity and game other girls in the meantime. If you don't see her that often, but see her once in a while, it's preferable that you don't message.

If your gonna start messaging her, don't ask for her number in the first message

Better to open her with something and later ask for a number

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