Hello all,

Recently went to another state with the guys on holidays. It was going great I fucked 3 girls in a row 3 nights of the week until I got to the 4th girl ... 4th girl is hb9 and is pretty fucking cool..

So i abandoned sarging for the rest of the trip and spent a shit load of time at hb9's house in particular her bed. Anyways the time came and we where both nasty to eachother later admiting to eachother that we didn't want to get hurt.

Long story short shes coming down in 3 weeks to see me. I want to speak to her more but I am afraid of coming accross as needy. I feel that gaming has changed alot now that things are long distance.

Does anyone have any advice about how not to come accross as needy? or advice about puaing while being in an LTR ? I don't know how long this LTR thing will last for... for me it's like banging my head against a fucking wall.

Thanks'

When you game girls it is easy to not care and kick them to the curb when your done with them. But when you meet that speacil one your mind says dont do the game, dont neg, dont be cocky/funny becaus she may take offense and leave you. Basically your being all those things cocky/funny, negging, playful blah blah blah to attract her. BUt once she is yours and you care about her your mind does a 180 telling you to not do what you did to attract her origianally because your afraid she will get mad. Along with that 180 you did in your game. You also think about them constantly. You need to get ahold of yoru emotions and remember those 3 girls you slept with before you met this hb9. Remember yoru personality and how you acted. Remember who you were and how easy is was to hit it and quit it. You need to be mister calm, cool and collected. Kind of like how you were when you did those 3 girls. Not mr. i like this girl alot so im going to ignore what attracts them and instead act like a woman. Do you think those 3 girls would have slept with you if you acted out how you feel with this girl you are seeing now hell no they wouldnt have.

THe game has got this girl attracted to you did it not? THen why do you think you need to try something else to keep her attracted? If anything id say keep doing whater you did to get those 3 girls in bed and attract the 4th girl. But since yoru dating die it down a little and be a tad bit more serious in conversation considering yoru dating this girl now.

But get control of yoru emotions before you blow up her phone and blow your chance. You like the girl and when you like someone your thought process does a 180 like i said.

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