Lack of Emotions



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 2:55 pm 
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Hi people !!
So I got very strange problem I noticed not very long ago
If a girl starts a conversation with me and asks me sth I just answer and thats all just simple logical answer....somehow I cant be emotionally involved in the conversation I care only about her.......and my focus is only on that and I cant continue the conversation any tips???? and anyone else with this strange problem???


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 7:02 pm 
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Not sure if its the same thing as you but i have problems with emotional depth and range. I fail to see why people are getting worked up and cant see the logical side of it. I find it very easy to detach myself emotionally from a situation and look at it logically. I also have limited emotional responses to situations that would warrant them.
For example when i found out my granddad was really ill, i wasn't particularly sad, despite the fact he's my hero. I was able to detach myself from the situation a realise that he is old and this was bound to happen soonish.
It's got advantages and disadvantages, i think now i starting to realise that the negatives perhaps outweigh the positives. It also means just among friends you can't be all that helpful when they have emotional crisis, as in know how they're feeling but you can give a logical opinion which is sometimes helpful.
Would like to know others opinions etc on this


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2012 1:44 am 
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I have that problem too but Gambler hit the nail on the head when in a conversation remember Emotion, Characteristics and motivation this helps to see the world from that persons perspective.
For Example: Talking to this girl she was talking about family and I could really care less but I remember all these things and created a deeper bond. She confided in me really personal details about her life and I got to have some fun with her.


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