hey yall
i make girls sad.. lol
i kinda seduce girls without me knowing it. im going for one, and i get another (yall get this too?)
anyway. i totally dont like the other because i know what i want.
this ends up in frustration cuz. they tend to seduce me in return (get that? she tries to invite me over like a lot and have fun with me like a lot without me wanting it.)
so it gets worse.
and now. well i kinda ignore that bitch and shes sad at home. now i know this i feel bad. omg. but it kinda feels like it serves her well.
it happened 3 times to me the last 12 months. so 3 different girls, same story.
i must be doing something wrong.

help.

English is your friend.

yes it is

You're either doing something right and that's why they're dissappointed and can't resist, or you're doing something wrong and not being clear enough with your intentions, so she is thinking that you have more of a relationship than you really do.

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I'd like to help you stek but I am kind of unsure about what the fuck you're talking about...

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Simply put...you are paying too much attention to the obsticle and not enough to the target.

Your obsticle is used to be ignored and when she is not she feeds off of it. The idea is to only pay her enough attention to get her to like you enough to let you talk to her friend. To have her think you would be "good' for her friend.

IMO it sounds like your going into a set and focusing on the obsticle and not switching to the target soon enough or at all.

Hope this helps.

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"Be the same, only better."

thank you so much
it helps
i was talking about an obsticle indeed. she's kissing my ass ever since i came to that school. i used to be popular right away but i kinda screwed up very bad and its still screwed up.
but anyway im planning to gain back territory. the reason why i lost so much ground is because i hated the bitch so much she was filling in my time and i was absolutely trying to be nice. but not go too far. and that probably turned her on even more.
i got a girlfriend this summer who i really love and thats why i couldnt care less about my reputation at school anymore.
but ill be back. though they do make it hard for me :s they gossip about me just to get me down and stuff, so i basically will have a hard time getting back.
im playing with fire.
and.. im losing 2 battles at the same time.
fuck.