Hi guys. This is my first post in the forum, extremely excited to be on here. I don't consider myself a newbie or AFC, but there are still many flaws in my game.

Lets get down to business - I met a HB 8 through a friend last year after my band performed at an alternative fest here in South Africa. Initially I wasn't very interested but got the # close down anyway. Since then we texted for a while but I never arranged to meet with her afterwards.

A few months went by and we rarely spoke, after a while we started texting again and I considered getting her out to spend some time with her, then I met a different girl who, until recently I was in a relationship with.

That ship has sailed now so last weekend HB, her friend, myself and a couple of my friends were out getting shitfaced. I'm quite attracted to HB so spoke to her friend initially (showing her photos on my phone first, while standing with my back to HB etc) and it had a very visible effect on HB. Later I did some kino escalation on her and fired a couple of negs her way... Unfortunately before I had a chance to isolate/kiss close she had to go.

Ever since, we've been texting frequently, It seems clear to me that she is attracted to me. I will be seeing her again on Saturday (going to have drinks at this lounge) so was wondering if you okes can suggest any cool routines/interesting topics of discussion and some suggestions for when I'm going for the kiss close.

Please correct me if there is anything wrong with the format of my post/content of the post for future reference.

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So you want advice on how to kiss close.

welcome to the forum by the way always fun to see the community expanding!

To the point though. You've texted a lot with this girl, coming up with topics on what to talk about will come pretty natural. As to the kiss close you should look up a few routines. Seeing as you most likely aren't familiar with routines I'd say skip them.

I've been on these kinds of dates. You have through your text made it obvious that you are interested in each other. It will be enough if you look her in the eyes for three-six seconds while none of you talk to go for the kiss.

The problem I've sometimes done in your situation (when its with a girl I've texted too much with) is that I get stuck in conversation-mode. Make sure you sit somewhere private where you can talk and kino eachother.

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Personally my k-close technique generally consists of getting closer and closer to the girl, usually under the guise of not being able to hear them properly (sometimes genuinely, othertimes not so much) build up a lot of sexual tension by looking into their eyes a lot, especially when talking to them, some silent pauses help hurry this along. Then after you built this up over a few minutes lean in slowly, if she recoils just continue talking as normal and continue building tension, if she holds firm, keep going.
If done right this can be very powerful, I once did this without even saying a word, she did all the talking and I just kept the gaze, next thing I know she's on top of me in the club and the bouncer is walking past giving me thumbs up lol.

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Thanks for the feedback guys. Date went extremely well. We ended up making out in my car lol, then went out and partied and just kino'd/kissed for the rest of the night. This one is in the bag

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