The other night I ran into a friend at a bar. She had come there to meet a friend HB8 and a class mate (some AFC) So I do an opener and run my set and shes eating it up. Even all my negs were going beautifully.

We hung out for a bit and my friend says she was having small party that night and asked me to go. While the HB8 was in the restroom I told her I had to stop by my place to grab some stuff and that i would take HB8 with me so I could find her place (GPS is overrated.) HB8 comes out and I actually get her to beg to ride with me (helps if you have a fast car) we go to my place grab stuffand get to the Party.

Everything continued to go well then my friend were talking when HB8 says she used to strip. I negged with something like "yeah well it doesn't take much to strip around here" She gets defensive and feels the need to prove herself. She sits my friend down (also a girl that I have interest in) and begins to give her a lap dance. Awesome. Afterwards I told her it wasn't bad and that I was "next" She agreed to give me one later that night. At this point Im thinking sweet I dont want to seem desperate so Ill let her go off and do shit while I chill with the guys.

A little later she comes back to talk to me but shes drunk as all get out. I kind of back down because the last thing I wanna do is take advantage of a super drunk girl especially in front of another girl I wanna game in the future. She ends up getting in a fight with a friend and leaving the party. Now heres my Q

I'm having a party a week after this happened which I had already invited my friend too and nonchalantly extended it to this HB8. What should I do? I considered texting her asking if she had practiced handstands for this party since she tried showing one to me which I gave her shit for it being terrible. What do I do? I feel like I did well but dont wanna risk blowing it all now.

I'd say everything went well. Go for the handstand thing, in-jokes are great because it will get her thinking about when the joke started (i.e you two having fun together). If she says she's not gonna come for whatever reason then just tell her she's gonna be missing out and all that usual spiel, maybe through in another neg about the handstand "you're just trying to weasel out of doing your embarrasing handstands again aren't you"

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