What is this?

Always take longer to respond than her? What are you 12 years old? This is bullshit. My texting game is tight as an asian pussy. I never fuck up and I often even use it as a tool to build attraction (if you know what you're doing). If she takes 20 minutes to respond to your text because she was eating and lets say you didnt knew she was busy..you will wait another 20min just to respond?? This "rule" reduces the natural flow of conversation you have with a girl. Dominant men don't wait fucking 30 minutes just to send a text to a 128 pounds girl. I'm not saying you should respond to her after 10 sec but still guys..calm down..respond whenever you feel like. Stop creating barriers that dont exist. Plus, do you really think the girl doesnt notice this?? It's really obvious when your doing this and you come off as trying too hard to get her attention.

I disagree with the other rules two lol it makes me chuckle to know that there are guys following these 3 rules.. you can write how many sentences you want and do what you want..you just need to calibrate. That's it. Calibration is the key. No need to follow rules

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Right on top. This thread actually made me chuckle

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Great insights brothers. Thank you very much.

To give back to the PUA community for the fine insights I got here, I'll share this trick of mine.

When I begin to think of a particular girl too much, I delete her number. This way, I don't text her first. She'll always be the one who is calling or texting me first.

Sometimes it's hard to control the urge especially when you've began to like the girl too much. But liking the girl too much kills the attraction. If you want to keep the girl, control your urges like a man.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Liking a girl is a crime? If you dont like a girl and text her..why the hell would you want to text her? Liking the girl kills attraction?? I think a lot of people dont understand a lot of concepts in human interaction. I'll explain this. Liking a girl does not kill attraction bro..what it usually does is that influences your level of neediness. You start to become needy and that kills attraction. Now what's the solution? Simple: Like the girl but don't be needy. Think about her all day if you want to..but don't show any signs of neediness and you won't lose the girl at all. Although at the beginning this is a hard task..with experience you will be able to not telegraph neediness but you will telegraph genuine interest in a girl. And that builds attraction up. A girl has to know you like her or else why the fuck will she keep investing in your interaction with her?

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I understand where you're coming from from a social point of view. I think it's smart thinking to anchor your point on some scientific basis.

However, the method that works best for me right now is from a neurological perspective. Specifically, for a general gist of the concept, check out, Dr. Helen Fisher's "The Drive to Love: The Neural Mechanism of Mate Selection."

The paper has two insightful points:

(1) Frustration attraction
(2) Intrusive thinking

That's the basis for my appreciation of the texting insights that I got from this thread.

Also, your texting or phone game depends on the age of the girls that you're sarging. The younger ones like the emotional roller coaster ride of romance while the older ones want the stable kind of romance like you calling your sweetie when you leave the office and reporting every now and then on what you're doing.

The method isn't about the crime of loving a woman but it's about romancing her properly from the perspective of neuroscience.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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Well fucking said!

At least someone gets it.

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Bro I'm not trying to be mean..but saying that liking a girl kills attraction is one of the most idiotic things I read on this site since I join it. I doubt that you can believe that...if you seriously believe that you miss a lot of pieces from the puzzle of attraction between a man and a woman. You need to start re-framing your way of thinking. You delete a girl's number because you like her? That's not even possible in the universe of possibilites in my brain. More than ridiculous. I'm not trying to insult you but wow..you're dominance level is near 0 my friend. Remove your ego from your equasion. Stop being so fragile, stop putting a shell around your body and start to act like a true man. You are acting like a 12 year old..What the hell are you saying? You act on a scientific basis?? What is that?? You're a fucking man grab your balls in both of your hands and slam them against the table. Men have built civilisations and we fought wars over and over again. Yet you delete a 128 pound girl's number because you're afraid of liking her? Come on man

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Cool story bro. I bet you're a tough guy, not only on the internet, but in person as well.

I'm here to improve my PUA skills. Thanks for the advice.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Drop the ego and listen to him and you might actually improve.

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Thanks a lot brother. I know how to drop the ego but...

"...You're a fucking man grab your balls in both of your hands and slam them against the table..."

How do I go about this?

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

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I think the point Valentyn was trying to make was that you should respond when YOU want to respond, it shouldn't have anything to do with her. I agree. People are too game-y.

I kinda agree that texting is the most impersonal method of communication. Texts on BBM, whatapp, voxer, viber, etc. etc. are a little better because then you are both in the club. (I have one girl where we almost exclusively communicate and make plans through Words With Friends and phone calls)


I think with texting, the key is to keep her smiling. "Brevity is the soul of wit"

Keep it short, lots of time constraints, where it becomes that the easiest way to contact you becomes the last resort. The more times you say "call me" and she does, the better.

When texting becomes the norm, then you need to work up to calling becoming the norm, then video-chat norm is far away, and how far away is actual real physical connection? Why not skip texting and be a phone guy?

Emotional connection is easier established on the phone. 10 minutes on the phone could be worth maybe 20 text messages? +- 10?


Anyone want to estimate the value ratio between texts & calls?

Wow.

There is no value ratio. You could send a few text messages that get to the point, sexual and leave her wet. Or talk on the phone all night long about stupid shit that's not sexual in nature or gaming. Which is better? Remember it never quantity, it's quality. I've noticed younger girls 19yr 20yr text wayyyy more cuz their younger. In the end their all the same.

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