I hate the feeling I get after an "unsuccessful" first date, especially if it's with a girl I really like. If I feel like I didn't spark enough attraction, or ruined any attraction present before in the woman, I get all depressed after the date and days after. How can I overcome this? I don't have that much experience with dating, maybe I will learn to ignore "failures"? It's like I feel loss of purpose or something.
Anyone have similar experiences, and ways to overcome this feeling? I want to continue dating, but I get afraid of feeling depressed if the dates don't go as well as I hoped for :/

Think of it like something normal.
No one gets it right the first time. But after you learn more and try try again, you will succeed. I can take week,months or years depending on the work you put in it.
Thats the beauty of it. If it would be easy and you would succeed every time then it would get boring.
Enjoy the journey.I still have fun remembering when I first started out and all the mistakes I've done.

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With great power comes great responsibility.

first date is really meant to teach us how to be the best for the next dates that we will going to have.

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