No no no, you misunderstand.. I am not at all trying to draw attention to myself I am simply posting a contribution to the thread. Is that not the purpose of this? to obtain feedback to a topic in question?

let's not distort the real issue here..

Being, you just didn't like my input.


Totally brings it back to sensitivity. - relax man, I don't expect you to really act on my "advice". However adding in a different train of thought can enrich those who are reading it. I still stand by what I said, stop being so insecure about a girl bailing on you. Once you do.. it'll probably stop happening.. if it doesn't who the fucck cares?

Here's another red flag:

- She never starts a conversation. This can apply to in person (always waiting for you to keep it going/keep it interesting) or texts (she only replies to them).

It just shows she's not generally interested in things around her and/or has no real passions or interests.

Or that she's not interested in you.

True, but I think thats the subtext to many of these IODs.

Most of these are pretty valid... except:
Is 30 and not marrried.
Thats a little rediculous I think and not unusual in this day and age.

Nah man that's a big red flag, which woman doesn't want true love?you have to ask yourself why is 30 years old and never married?There must be something there that freaks guys out

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“The only reason to wait a month for sex is if she's 17 years, 11 months old.”-Barney Stinson

Red flags for me:
-She wants to be with you every second.
-She doesn't leave you alone when you're going out with friends/are having a boysnight
-She doesn't have any kind of hobbies besides the relationship (this one was already mentioned but it is very important I think)
-She doesn't do anything without you.

All these things point out she isn't indepent en she is far too depending on you.

You still talking about this?

The weirdest red flag I had so far was this:

-She tries to insert a vibrator in your ass.

That essentially makes her a nutcase.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

"SHe has a hard time saying no to people"

I wholeheartedly agree with this statement, from experience with several woman displaying this behaviour. The pattern is always the same.

p.s I'm talking about the phone thing btw, just to clarify!

past behaviour is the best indicator of future behaviour

One time i had a fling with a girl who had all of those lol
Lets say it didn't end nicely, i was warned at the time, and it put me off one night stands ever since.

Every girl has at least one "red flag" if not more, find what you like and go with it. Everyone has a different cup-o-tea

MORE than one? A girl who has had even ONE is probably the biggest red flag ever.

The 'masturbation is gross' wouldn't bother me. Masturbation IS gross. Nor would I be bothered by a girl being religious.


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