theres a girl from my work that iwve been in touch for the past week or two (mainley tm's because I worked at a different place for the past two weeks).

I can see that she's into me, but she has a bf and I can see it's holding her back (she's a good girl and cheating is not something she'll normaly do).

for example when I tried to set up a meeting (I said I had something to do close to the her area **realy had something to do** and that we should get a cup of coffee. she said she thinks that she needs to babyseet her brother and I tolds her to get back to me about it, but she didn't.

as I said I can see shes into me and our talks are allways on a flirty note.

how should I handle this girl?

a sexual frame.

you're flirtin,yes...but if you wont take it somewhere you'll become her "friend" soon.

just be sexual,escalate things verbally and physically.

OR

you can be a fucking snake and wait till' she and her BF will fight,she'll come crying to you because you're her "friend" and you'll know what to do then....

but i wouldn't do it.

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I'd say find another girl, I'm not one to ruin relationships. But, you could try getting her to leave her bf for you, then again that's assuming you want a relationship and not just a one night stand.

you think shes into you, well just wait until they broke up. you don't need to put much effort to win her.
if you two are already together that's the time for you to put an effort to make her stay with you.

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cali you're right. i didn't realy escalated things physically. i know it's something i should do but i just dont realy find how and where because I see her maybe for ten minutes a day and it's always in her office (she can't come to my office. shes not allowed) surronded by other people. I'll try harder to do it (not agresively ofcourse)

and I don't wanna play it as a snake. I want her for a relationship, not for a SNL.

**btw im not letting things get to the friend zone

alot of our interaction is text's. should I send her more text's compering to an interaction with a single girl?

yeah...you can do this too OR you can show her intent,a strong sexual frame..10 minutes is enough to dry fuck any girl anywhere.

release yourself from the outcome,and push pull-her intensively then shoot for a later "hang out".

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