So today I was talking with a good friend of mine in High School and I asked about this girl that was very attractive. I have a lot of confidence and can probably use the cold approach on anyone outside of school. But if I get blown out she will probably tell her friends and the friends will tell their friends=Lower Value. Anyways, I asked my friend who was friends with her, how's she like. He said that she's not my type, so I asked how. He said that she's more into the muscular sports jocks. That went against Mystery's theory that girls look more for survival value and not more replication value. I've picked up quite a few girls and have no trouble approaching and can DHV quite well. So, my mail question is do girls look for replication value just like guys?

Girls don't really control what they look for because it's automatically programmed in them what to look for. They look for confidence, leadership and other manly attributes. They might say they prefer certain types of guys but when the interaction comes and A GUY can turn on the right switches (her emotional state) he can do anything with her. Think of it like fishing. First you lure the fish to eat the worm on the hook once the fish puts its mouth on the warm and gets on the hook and you pull it out there's nothing the fish can do to change that. Not that I compare woman to fish but it's just an analogy. So the answer is all woman look for the same thing. Even if they say they don't.

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[quote="PUAKush"]So today I was talking with a good friend of mine in High School and I asked about this girl that was very attractive. I have a lot of confidence and can probably use the cold approach on anyone outside of school. But if I get blown out she will probably tell her friends and the friends will tell their friends=Lower Value. Anyways, I asked my friend who was friends with her, how's she like. He said that she's not my type, so I asked how. He said that she's more into the muscular sports jocks. That went against Mystery's theory that girls look more for survival value and not more replication value. I've picked up quite a few girls and have no trouble approaching and can DHV quite well. So, my mail question is do girls look for replication value just like guys?[/quote]

Wouw, dude. Stop all this Mystery bullshit for a moment. Who says you will get lower value if she doesn't like you ? Maybe you get higher value because you are one of those balsy guys that isn't afraid to go for what you want. And NEVER listen to your friends. Just always go for what you want. If she likes muscular guys, then let her be the one telling this to you.

ok firstly,

yes, looks matter (don't confuse this with they are all that matters)

next, if you were considering how much security two guys could offer her, one who was ripped and in good shape, and one who was skinny and average, who do you think realistically offers more survivability?

because if you ask me, mr.muscles has you beat in the survivability aspect, as in, lets say you both had women, and you were enemies, one of you would end up dead and kill the other guys wife and kid after, who would that be that ended up dead?, the person that lives in the hyphothetical situation through guess work would by default be the more survivable male (and she will take personality cues, like how aggressive he is, how confident, how timid etc. to do some guess work on if he would actually step up and offer security, but chances are it is fairly easy to guess)

security, and looks are not in themselves the only things girls find attractive about you, your status is what girls find attractive, in other words, how important you are, and what a girl ''values'' as important is subjective from girl to girl, some girls think a guy who has alot of money is important, some girls think a good looking guy is important, some girls just want a guy who is the best at something, some girls want a guy with alot of friends, but the common demoninator is a girl wants a successful guy, who is successful at one thing or another, and what is an attribute linked to success?, confidence, and girls sniff out confident guys and become interested in them because it lets on that you have potential, if you have some ambition, some passion, some drive and determination and do things with confidence, the exterior and interior make you seem important to that particular girl, she will find you attractive

also, what is going to happen if you get rejected in school?, girls are going to know you're not gay?, stop overthinking this shit, you already have a status at school, and it is pretty solid, is getting rejected going to make you any less cool?, ask yourself that, how important you are matters, how you look matters and actually will correlate to your status compared to other males, you want to be popular, make it happen, just because one or more girls turn you down, does not automatically make all girls that hear about it turn you down (trust me on that one it has been field tested and is 100% pure bullshit, not only that but im pretty sure that theory was related more to cold approach and negative social proof, as in when a girl is unsure of what your value is *how cool you are* she will take a que of dis-interest from another girl, as you are not cool, but in school, it should already be known how cool/uncool you are and how ''important'' you are in comparison to other guys, you have a status already)

you can get blown out by one girl, then open a girl right beside her and have a good interaction and get a close, if a girl likes you or not, is totally subjective to the girl and how much she likes you, not what becky beside her did 10 minutes ago

not only that but rejection is not concrete, it is pretty safe to assume that one girl that is not interested, is simply not interested, but lets say you improve yourself and try again after some improvement has been made, nothing is set in stone but if you made big changes in your life there is a chance you could shift girls that once rejected you into sleeping with you (think weight loss, muscle gain, winning the lottery, or serious lifestyle changes/personality shift, new friends, new clothes, etc.)

also to sum things up, any guy can say, ya im confident, but saying your confident and actually being confident and believing in yourself 100% of the time is alot different then just telling yourself you are confident, if you are not sure of yourself and asking, what if something goes wrong?, I don't know what to do, chances are you are not feeling very confident about yourself are you?

just step up to the plate, take a swing with the bat, over and over and over, until you are sure of your ability to hit the ball, eventually you will become very confident in your swing and all your homeruns will be attributed to that great swing you developed from years of practise, you will miss 100% of the pitches you don't swing at

GOOD LUCK