Hi Guys new here so pls be nice

I have been on a date with this girl 2 times already, and after the date I texted her she didnt reply.

She then texted me the next day, always something like "hey how r u?..my backs been sore and iv had such a busy week etc..."

Something like that...

Its like she always wait 1 day to reply... now i didnt text her the whole day and she texts me the day after again...

What should I say to arrange another date here cause if i text her straight out of the blue wont it be weird?

Dude, you've gone out with her twice already. That means you should know how to ask her on a date again. I suggest you call her to ask her out on a date. I assure you she won't wait a day on the phone with you just to answer, she'll probably answer right away. Good luck!

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Its not that easy..

I tried to call her once before after the 1st date and she never answered.

She usually only texts me when I try to arrange a date with her.

Shes always going on about herself and just asks me "hows it going?'

I feel like shes playing hard to get, I feel like a dork if I text her now after 1 day randomly and i dont even know what to say...

Should i just text her today and say "hey lets go out again, etc..?

Please help!

Hmm. I wouldn't say that If I were you. Maybe she's playing hard to get, or maybe something else is happening with this girl. Text her, don't worry, be confident, if she doesn't answer you already did your part, and you can move on to another target.

For the text:

Open with something funny! There are lots of openers in the forums you can use, but never say: "Hey let's go out again..." NEVER.

Example opener:

"How's my favorite little brat doing? " You come across playful with the girl, and also get a laugh from her. You can continue the conversation to one point and leave the girl in suspense. At one point of the conversation you can say this: "Your __________ is the 2nd most attractive thing you have." When you say this, almost all women wonder which thing you think it's the first one. And they ask it, and you can tell her you'll tell her, at the end of a movie on saturday, or while eating ice cream friday afternoon, whatever you like. Hope this helps!

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hmm.. good stuff there i will use that! thanx!

I am usally good with the texting being cocky n funny....but the only thing is like i feel like she wont text back at some points...

I am gonna text her... lets see how it goes

I've been really succesful with texting recently.

The best thing You do is to play it cool, just be funny/cocky and have fun, texting is a great way to build attraction and comfort.
Dont be afraid to be honest, always be straight forward and give in-depth info on subjects. Adjust yourself to her texts (Length, smileys, etc..)
good example is this.


Instead of sending something like this:

My day was so funny!

Send something like this

My day was so funny, me and my mate (insert random stuff here) ''How was your day''.

She doesn't have to ask you questions, make sure u give information where she has to reply too, even if it's just a ''Haha, sounds like fun!'', atleast she acknowledges it.

Oh, about the rule many have mentioned, the one where U text her back, the same amount of time it took her too text, is plain bullshit.

U can wait a minute or 2, but if she doesn't text back for 3 hours, dont wait 3 hours to text her, because ur breaking comfort rather then building.
Always assume there's a reason she doesn't respond, I've had a girl not text me for hours aswell, and I never bothered thinking about it, I automaticly got replies from her saying ''Sorry! I was at work, blablabla''.

Honestly she sounds lame and boring...

But if you are really into her i would call her out on it and neg the shit out of her for that. Train her not to do that shit anymore.