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Married guy # closes, just for the fun of it.
Summary: HB6 at Starbucks, too easy with PUA info floating in head. Just want to encourage all the recovering AFCs that this stuff is GOLD! Just thought I'd share how good/effective this material can be.
I've occasionally been reading some of the PUA boards for about two years. Mostly for pure entertainment. I have to admit many of the reports are hilarious and very fun to read. Keep up the good work.
You guys put a lot of thought and effort into PUA stuff, and many married guys could learn a lot about how to romance their wives better. Now and then I'll pick up some material I can use for the wife; cube game, whatever. *All* women eat this stuff up. Also many of your date ideas restaurants/venues are great ideas that I can use and build upon.
When I was single I was what would be considered a natural. Did a lot of this stuff (freezing, framing, games, peacocking, kino, etc) w/o even knowing I was doing it. And reading your guys' reports bring a lot of good memories back.
Anyway, I decide to work away from the office today, and settled in at a local Starbucks. Table next to mine is a HB6 doing homework. This HB6 had a good (5'6" maybe 110 lb) body HB8+, maybe higher but hard to tell with her outfit. But her face was only a 5.
I sit down and get to work. Her homework looks like calculus. I ask, she says o-chem. I give "hmm" and smile wryly. I don't say anything and get to work on my own stuff. Several hours go by, I'm busy and don't pay much attention to her. She informs me later on when she does switch to calculus. I just smile and grunt.
The energy in the Starbucks is pretty good, lots of people coming and going. when a nearby high school lets out the place gets pretty packed. some young AFCs get a little rowdy. Doesn't bother me too much, but when Hb6 looks annoyed I let out nice intimidating "Hey! Knock it off." to the boys and they run outside to goof off elsewhere. I just shoot another wry smile back at her with some EC, and get back to work w/o saying anything. Looking back on it this probably DHV for her.
Anyway hours go by (I *do* have to work), and I pretty much ignore her. I finally stop for a break, go get a drink and sit back down with it and start chatting with her.
Hyde: How's that studying going?
HB6: blah blah
*fluff fluff fluff*
Hyde: You grow up in this town?
HB6: Yes
Hyde: you ever go out exploring/hiking back country
HB6: No. blah blah. *tells story driving with friends* I prefer the city more.
Hyde: Really? do you ever go to this restaurant, that club etc.
HB6: Yes, no, didn't know about that
Hyde: I start telling her some the history of the town and general stuff...
at this point I wasn't really thinking about gaming to much, just being myself. but she started displaying some SOI and was maintaining good EC so a decided to see what would happen if I started gaming.
I qualify myself a little more. Really didn't need to. I talk about my work, but in a way to expresses my *passion* for what I do. I ask about her major (but I don't care). And continue talking about being passionate for what you do, blah blah.
Hyde: Do you travel much?
HB6: not really, blah blah blah, Vegas now and then
Hyde: I tell her about my recent Vegas trip. We stayed in at Mandalay Bay, ate at the Paris Eiffel tower. (her eyes light up when talking about food)
HB6: She used to like clubing, but getting to old for that (she's 25) and doesn't like to gamble. So will just be going with friends for the shows.
Hyde: Vegas is nice but I really like this city and that. I tell her about some of journeys etc.
It's at this point she goes DDB on me. I'm laughing inside. I don't know if I would have known to spot the DDB look before. I talk more about travel and places to eat. She gets exciting about talking about food. I just keep it on the food topic and start comparing places to eat. We compare notes on different places around town.
It's at this point I decide to eject. For a couple of reasons. 1) I'm married, and don't need a date. 2) Mr Hyde was starting to get his motor running. (I decided to # close just for the fun of it.)
Also, I knew if I was going to continue the PU it was time to start intro kino (mostly from the old instincts). But now with the PUA material swimming in my head (even untested) I also knew I could take it pretty far without much effort. Easily a k-close (after all she's just a HB6). And if I would have changed the venue, and got her to qualifier herself as a "passionate", "adventurous" and "spontaneous" person it would have been an f-close. Plus she starting to give off that "I want you to fuck me" sub-conscience vibe that, at least I used to have radar for.
Hyde: Hey it's time for me to eject, have to run.
HB6: oh. (looks disappointed)
Hyde: ( I hand her my phone) Here, type in your number and maybe I'll call you and you can take me to that restaurant that we talked about.
HB6: Ok. (types in number)
*fluff* *fluff* <eject />
Conclusion:
1) This stuff is Gold. Learn it.
2) "Do you use your powers for good or for AWESOME?" I choose good... AWESOME is only for the single guys.
-Mr. Hyde
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