So I'm at this club with my friends and we smoked cigarettes(Yes, it's illegal to smoke inside clubs but here in my country the rules aren't obeyed ). And a chick passed next to me and i burned her with my cigarette on her hand(unpurposely) and she shouted. I'm like oh god, that wasn't on purpose and grabbed her hand and started blowing on her hand, she said fuck it and left :O 20 minutes passed and i saw her sitting on the bar and went there and whispered in her ear "I'll buy u a drink, will u forgive me" while holding my hand near the wound. She agreed, then we talked a little, i got her number, kissed her and left So i thought of burning them on purpose and do the same over again.

Might sound retarded. But of course that should be a light burn if u do it on purpose

Your getting her first association with you to be anger and pain, and not like elementary school fun teasing anger and pain. If you can overcome the whole "you Burned me!!!!!!" thing a bunch of times and make it a good routine... that would be impressive

Man, this is one retarded routine.

Once a girl opened to me because I burned my cigarette the other was around. What a waste but the night was fun

I think on all levels this is a dumb idea.

But if you really wanted to continue with it, couldn't you use something else? Accidentally jabbing them with your keys or something, so you're not BURNING the poor girl?

I dunno, I just..

Yea, of course. But the burn hurts like.. when u try to light off a candle with your fingers. You're not trying to go through her hand so the cig comes out on the other side

I actually had a cigarette burn fight with a girl in a club once. Was so fun...and painful. I wasn't trying to game her and I never went any further. But given the type of girl she was I could have gone for it.

Wouldn't use it as a routine though. Was just a fun 'game'.

Also your line sucked, buying her a drink if she'll forgive you. Ofc she said yes, she wants a drink. You essentially payed for forgiveness..DLV. You were lucky this worked this time, do it 3 more times and report back if you have the same success...

You don't even know my game. That's how i went, then while talking i DLV'ed her, i played somewhat "Hot and cold" game. It doesn't mean are always a DLV when u do that..

I don't think its a good idea to go around and do this on purpose lol

Fairly new to the forum. Just wondering, what is the strategic advantage of purposely using a DLV?

good way to get punched in the face. Always leave a woman better off than when you met her. Cigarette burns dont feel good.

I fucking love it!!! Would never do it but I'm picturing in my head a guy burning girls and getting laid! Can't stop laughing! Great for comedy, not for real! Hhhhhmmmmmm, but what if you acted like you thought you burned her? And rubbing the fake wound and blowing on her? Could it work?

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Acting like you thought you burned her (when you did NOT, which will get you beat up or in legal trouble sooner or later) could work, if you play it with the right attitude: casually or reflexively protective and caring of others, but NOT upset b/c you think you just pissed off a hot girl (i.e. most AFCs would be like 'ohno ohno ohno' if they spilled a drink etc. on a hottie, so not being that way is DHV).

But, too hard to set up the positioning so that you can credibly 'think' you burned her but not risk actually doing so. Also, it's a minor DLV in that it might make her think you're clumsy, careless, or accident-prone.

I definitely agree Ganon. If you put that much effort and thought into it then it wouldnt work. But if it's playful and spur of the moment without too much care, I could really see this working. As far as being a DLV, in my opinion, I don't think so. I see DLV'S as something to gage actual values. For example, always being broke or not keeping up with your hygiene. Bumping into others at a bar/club, not so much. It's going to happen from time to time. And when it does, how you handle it is what determines whether it's a DLV or DHV. For instance, being seen at The Hunger Games movie premier could be seen as a DHV because it shows how much into pop culture and whats hot you are. Then again, it could be a DLV by showing how you are an adult but are still into 5th grade reading level stories. Then again, that's how I see things.

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