Hey

Sorry for another opening on the dance floor topic but what I was after is some advice on what to say in these kind of situations:

Last night I locked eye contact with a girl and knew she was keen as she started dancing really close and kept giving loads of IOI's. Sometimes (Like last night) we may even start dancing before saying anything. My problem was I never know what to say just to open and start the interaction before or afterwards and then they usually just walk away after my window of oppurtunity has closed. These situations never need much just like one line really to start interaction but I never know what.

Last night I think I said something really boring like "damn this is the first song for ages that I actually know". Really lame I know but it somehow worked last night and I kiss closed. but more often than not it doesn't really work.

Should I just say something like "okay okay you win" and when she says what say "the staring contest". I dunno ha

Any tips on some good things to say?

Thanks!

These are physical interactions. The fact you have started dancing and getting IOIs without speaking sets the underlying context - What you say isn't important. Probably the best thing to say would be nothing at all - whether you succeed or not will be down to your kino and body language.

If she's on the dance floor with you and giving you IOIs, you don't need to open, she's already there.

I think dancing is the easiest day to pickup girls. If she is giving you the IOIs, you dont have to think much what will you say, just smile and have a good time. You could say something if you want, i did and it was OK, she was smiling, dancing, touching me...not that hard

Im a direct game fan. And, in night-clubs, sometimes you dont even have to say nothing. You stated that she was giving you loads of IOI's and stuff. Next time, just grab her hand, in an alpha manner, lead her to a corner and start kino escalation.

Another situation is, if she is giving lots of IOI's, you are maintaining eye contact and such you don't need to necessarily dance with her, unless youre good at it and it is part of your routine. You can just nod to a corner with your head and then head there. If she is interested in you, she will follow. If she doesn't move on.

just keep dancing, advancing, and try to kiss her right there!

All the advice given so far on this topic is on point. I mean if youre gettin IOI's in overdose,seconds and seconds of eye-contact ,dancing which is a perfect way to kino escalate,and get her to comply,If you got all that going,Then Dude you dont haveta say much. But if you do feel like sayin something you can just go :
You : "So this is,what you do?"
(she'll prolly ask "what?" or something along those lines)
You :" haha Seducing guys on the dancefloor whatelse.. I know ya game missy" or " haha my toes will never be the same.. Lets go recoop over there" now those work perfectly as your lookin to Isolate,especially if you kino escalated during the dance,and u already got her to take a few strides up the compliance ladder. So taking her hand and getting her to follow you,will work just fine. Thats just me bro.

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That is pretty much the goal. Get her to comply with small things at first. Once she opens up, just escalate and then close. Once again, in a night-club this is all very fast, so you got to use your game accordingly. Don't go pulling out the cube in the middle of the dance floor.

What if you can't dance?now what? lol

No problem. I cant dance lol. I mean, sure i can, everyone can, but i dont think it would be good for my game.

What I do is I go for the ones not dancing, or at the least the ones dancing at the edges of te dance floor, They are there to draw attention and position themselves accordingly. The chicks dancing like crazy in the middle of the dance floor should be left for themselves. I meam, I am a fan of direct game and in clubbing it is almost the only way to go.

Also, approach chicks that are at the bar. I've read in someone's post, not sure who, that a good way to approach is to make a game with the girl: who gets the drinks first. It seems harmless at first look but it is a very good way to open and then stack up from there.

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Yes, here, say NOTHING, shut the fuck up, dance and escalate looking for compliance, only speak when spoken too and never give a straight answer, i cover a lot of this in mr. matt dancefloor threat on the lounge...

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@skills, care to give a link to this post of yours?

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nah, no post, i just cover a lot here:


mrmatt-dancefloor-club-game-vt128197.html

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