I posted this in another section as well, but my one-itis is pretty bad on this girl. Can anyone help me out? Here's the sitch:

This chick had been into me and dropped her number to me on fb. She gave it to me, so I took the initiative and texted her about 30 min after I got it. Thank God I did too because she invited me out to the bar that night.

Night went smoothly, played a great game; lots of negging and I finally got her away from her friends. Good thing too cuz it was her friend's 21st. I told her we should get out of there and go to another bar where we could actually hear each other and have a drink, she agreed.

We bounced and eventually ended up back at my place (only told her she could stay for 20 min or so mind you Wink ) To make this story short now, we ended up making out and she stayed the night. I know it could've escalated further sexually, but I didn't wanna push it as I'm really into this girl. We hung out again a couple nights later, but she had to bounce early and I wasn't about to try to push it there either...but now I'm thinking maybe I should have.

Past couple of days, I couldn't get her to text me back really. I know she's in to me and everything and I have a couple of theories as to what's going through her head, but I need some advice on how to capitalize here and turn this around in my favor. Anyone have any thoughts on what I should do?

My initial thought was a freezeout and to cut all contact with her til she's fighting for my attention again but not too sure if that's the right move

That's the best move. Girls will always distance themselves if you fail to get past LMR. Not taking the initiative and fucking her because you don't wanna "push it" is the worst thing you can do, and counts as failing LMR.

The reason she may give for distancing herself doesn't matter, it comes down to not fucking her the first chance you get, or the second.

At most I can get 3 dates with a girl without fucking her. After that I either sleep with them or lose them. More likely I lose the girl on the second date. Any night you're alone with her counts as a date.

Damn, I should've done it. I started questioning my game after Neil Strauss The Game came up in conversation because she's read it 3 times, and she follows pick up culture for a hobby. I didn't want to use something and get that look from her that says 'haven't heard that line before'

If i can get a day 3, i'll make it happen