I've known her for a year we worked together and had a fling and were like boyfriend and girlfriend for 6 months. We stopped working around October although there was another part time job which I would see her at in November which is starting again soon so I might see her once a month.

We got on well but she wasn't over her ex so that is why she never went out with me properly. We speak most weeks but have had less calls recently especially since the start of the year. She told me on the phone she was really hungover and then when I spoke she was quiet...made me feel like I was a stranger to her and she wasn't opening up much.

She then randomly said "We have not seen eachother in a year" and then went back to being quiet. It has been since November that we saw eachother but I we haven't had a good chat like we used to since about Mid September.

Last time things were really good between us were August. I mentioned to her it's been about six months and that we should have a good chat sometime she was quiet again. Why would she say it feels like a year, is she saying I'm like a stranger now?

I hate to break it to you, but it sounds like things are over with this relationship. He didn't do anything wrong, it's just that all relationships have their own lifespans, and this one is over.She would not be talking to you the way she did if it were still “on.”

What makes you want to prolong the life of this relationship so badly? There are tons of other wonderful women out there, and you were on a form that will help you increase your success not with one woman, but with all women. Get out of the game, have fun, and date lots of women. Get over this girl.

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Okay dude, there are always lots of POSSIBILITIES:

First of all: Girls do not THINK. Girls are not LOGICAL. They are emotional and are always drawn in by the moment.

You can get almost any girl, even if she has 9 boyfriends, if the moment is good. When you can let the magic happen, when you can let it be a Casanova moment, she will feel it and want you.

What happened is that you didn't have good enough conversations on the phone, you didn't let her feel all kinds of emotions, especially the good ones. (her ex probably did) I mean there were dead silences and you know when the momentum is negative during one. When such a negative silence arises, your attractiveness sinks.

If you still want her, you know what to do. Have conversations in which she wants to participate, bust her balls a bit, push pull, but most important of all, DO NOT be needy.

not sure if you're a troll or not, but it has been over a year, she got you fired, you were never her boyfriend, you have still not even kissed her, she flakes on you, she used you for entertainment at work,

you have ontitis and a terrible case, horribly needy towards this girl, delete her number, delete your text logs, delete every single way you have of contacting this girl, do what you have to do to get other dates, join a dating site, go to bars, go to clubs, go out during the day, try to meet women, ask them out on dates, do what you gotta do, this girl is not going to sleep with you, she is only going to lead you on for an eternity

I know you won't listen to this advice, maybe you are just a troll, who knows

look forward to seeing your new post about this girl in a month or two

shit seriously is not going to work out with her man, or it already would have

'we haven't talked for about a year'

Was she referring to you or her ex?

Not trolling. I do care about her and it's hard to forget her.