Okey here's my story

There's a girl in my school that I find interresting and I'm a good friend with her best friend So that's plus! And the hb told my and her friend that she was interessted to (she thaught I had nice style and was good looking) so we talked in school and on msn, and we send messenges on the mob and I called her only once and we talked.

Then my and her friend invited me to her house (a poolparty) and I brought a friend to. But the things is the hb i very very very quiet ! I don't know if she is shy, I try to talk to her but she responses are very short and no follow upp questions! she said about 8 sentences all night! And she is hb9 about, weeird. And went home her friend told me that she thaught I was very good looking adn so on, but WTF why didn't she talk to me !!?

Very weeird! Listen to this, the night before the pool party I talked to the HB and she was exited to meet me the next day!

So please guys help me ! Any ideas what I should do??

sorry about the bad english

I want to know what turns out. But how did you game her over the phone? HOw did you game her at the party? Something is missing here. Let me know.

Girls get AA and self conscious etc... too.

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Yeah im thinking its a kind of female AA

at the pool party I tried to talk with her but it was kinda impossible, she didn't talk to anybody almost except her friend a little. At the phone we talked about 15 minutes only and just usually, how are u and so on and she was social. And in school we talked and she was social but not that much! her friend is very social!

and now on msn she doesn't write to me anymore, she used to say "hi" sometimes, so I have freeze her out to:P in school we said hello when she walked by and in the cafeteria (in the school) me and my friend saw here stare at me, like she wanted me to approach her and talk.

oh yeh maybe it is AA because she said to me before we even talked that she was scared to approach me and talk.

What is AA? ( forgive me I am new)....If only there is a way she gave you something that you can work with. Something that will hook her and allow to cut into her. Perhaps, if you play your game tight, she will cut into you. What openers have you used? I think its best to allow here to feel comfortable with you. You already can open provided that her friend is social.

I say Open, allow them to give a signal that they are hooked, and drop a bit of false time, see how they react.

open? I'm way beyond that, I think it's more about comfort! making her comfortable near me and she will start talking. Yeh your right need to reach her someway it's hard when they are quiet

don't say you are way beyond that. Instead think " wash rinse repeat, wash rinse rpeat, wash rinse repeat." Take it all the way passed the LMR stage and beyond.

Alcoholics Anonymous... No but really its approach anxiety. She's just shy. Make jokes about it, say something like, "You're my favorite person to NOT talk to." Then she will ask why, or what that means, and then you can say, "Well you never talk and are so quiet." Making her laugh will help build the comfort level.

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any other suggestions ?