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Its good to have an attitude which is congruent to your personality, go over there and tell her youre cool with her doing it but you dont want to do it yourself. Giving in to peer pressure is not alpha and girls like guys who know what they want and are comfortable with who they are
That also works the other way though. By telling her that you refuse to smoke weed, but are okay with her doing it you take away from the rapport. You make her feel less comfortable. It's your call on the weed thing. I would not smoke it,if it were me.
Point in case: what ever you do, you want to build rapport and keep attraction.
Depends how you tell her with the right tonality and body language plus kino. The little rapport you might take away, you can build much more to make up for it.
You can also tell her that you quit recently and made a promise to yourself to never smoke again. Tell her although you're tempted, you are a man of your word. She will respect that and be impressed that you can resist temptation and have self control (even though you never smoked in the first place haha).
Don't listen to anyone who tells you to do things you don't want just to get closer to a girl. That's very damaging to your character and if you break your principles for women then what kind of a man are you becoming? cause no alpha or real man would do such a thing.
I've been tempted to smoke cigarettes in patios just cause it's so easy to start a conversation with girls that way or use it as an excuse to go there, but I'd rather use another approach I can be happy with and step up my game enough where I don't need to look for an easy opening.