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| bounty_killa | PostPosted: Wed Feb 15, 2012 8:24 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Dec 31, 2010 8:00 pm Posts: 128 | | Hey guys, real excited about these turn of events. Met this HB9 who I'm at C1 with in uni today. She was with her classmates, some of who are my friends. So I chatted with her for a bit then turned to my friends, and talked loudly so she could hear. I mentioned this sporting event that would be fun to go watch (cricket), and nobody seemed interested except HB9 who interjected: "Hey I wanna go so badly but no-one else goes..." she basically starts to justify why I should carry her. So I said I'll meet her at her home and we'll walk together.
I have a few questions about this new uncharted territory:
1-She is not the hugging type. Should I hug her as soon as I meet her at her house to get rid of that awkwardness so kino is easier?
2- I'm leaving the country in about 6 months for another uni.. she knows this. How do I respond to any topics like "so ur going for sure then...i'll miss you.." I ALWAYS get this from girls I'm into. It's almost like ASD or LMR. How do I get rid of this fear, or better yet, how do I use it to my advantage?
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| Thedutchone | PostPosted: Wed Feb 15, 2012 9:53 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jan 04, 2012 12:12 am Posts: 117 | | 1) No. Don't do something that she dislikes. Alot of other ways to kino..
2) Joke about it ; And I will vanish forever, be happy then you got a place to crash when you come over ..
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| bounty_killa | PostPosted: Fri Feb 17, 2012 1:46 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Dec 31, 2010 8:00 pm Posts: 128 | | Report:
The cricket match was cancelled so I texted her to suggest we have get food on campus instead. She agreed and we met up after her class (8oclock) and went for subway. Offered to go back to my place to eat, BECAUSE I cleaned prior. The entire time (about an hour) I had her laughing and we were just having a good time unwinding. I was searching desperately for ways to kino escalate because I obviously had the conversation thing down. She had a bottle of water and I drank from it and left enough for her, and she drank from it too. During the conversation, I was trying to make a point and I tried to hold her hands but they were slightly messy from subway and she commented that they were dirty so I didn't try again.
She eventually brought up the moving abroad thing and I joked "yeah i'm never coming back."
Tried to get her to come to a party (know she doesn't party) and I joked I could ask her father for her. This got a strong positive response(her dad is an arabic priest).
Walked her home. She didn't even pause at the gate for a hug, she just opened it went inside and said bye. I was thinking about saying "Hey I deserve a hug for walking you home!" But I thought this would be needy.
Reached home and texted her "u can stop worrying about me now, im home and safe" to which she replied positively and busted my chops a little.
How the hell can I escalate on this girl? I don't want to spend anymore time in the comfort zone, and she's obviously into me.
How long do I wait to ask her out again?
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| bounty_killa | PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 1:42 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Dec 31, 2010 8:00 pm Posts: 128 | | Update:
Today I saw her walking with her friends and hey group approached mine. She was very shy and did not approach me, I said something to her but it was not very clever so she just answered my question. She was very cold toward me and then left for home.
May have been because her entire class thought she was into me and this was her ASD?
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| Thedutchone | PostPosted: Sun Feb 19, 2012 8:06 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jan 04, 2012 12:12 am Posts: 117 | | Drop her...
I think she isn't that much into you nor will she be in the future.
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| Disillusion | PostPosted: Sun Feb 19, 2012 10:01 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Feb 19, 2012 1:09 am Posts: 23 | | she probably initially thought you just wanted to be her friend because you didnt speak up about being attracted to her when you first met her. Now she probably figured out you were trying to creepily sneak your way in there haha so weird
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| bounty_killa | PostPosted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 6:56 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Dec 31, 2010 8:00 pm Posts: 128 | | Hmm why do you guys say so? She was the one to ask me out. Also, she has never been in a relationship/slept with anyone. I would say she is less socially experienced than even me.
I don't want to mislead myself, but these are the facts. Also, the reason I'm being sneaky is I'm hoping to create some attraction (I know she's comfortable with me). She has completely blanked two guys I know who revealed feelings for her. Harsh.
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| bounty_killa | PostPosted: Thu Feb 23, 2012 3:21 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Dec 31, 2010 8:00 pm Posts: 128 |
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