My ex gf and I are very close. The benefits of these friendships are life long. (this is not about her and I)

She is having trouble getting a guy to sleep with her. He is “old fashioned”. So we were talking about how she could get him into bed. They have been on several dates already and have been talking for a couple weeks.

I thinking everything is going to be fine

But how can a woman get a guy to sleep with her if he wont put out? She tried the physical side. I started to bug me so I thought Id see what you guys thought.

I thought maybe freeze him out before he stops her so she takes charge. But it’s “manipulative” and she didn’t like it.

I think this indirectly helps even if it’s in the reverse. Cause you need to use your understanding of both sexes. What she is going to feel comfortable doing if she cant jump him and what will work on him….I just don’t have that insight. I think I may have been over thinking it.

The farthest I got was that he had a sticking point. Like he needed comfort/ report to put out.


Thoughts?