My GF found out some stuff about me. I told behind her back stuff like "i want to leave her", "i'm not 100% attracted anymore to her but i don't want to say her cause it would hurt her", "i was a lot of nice girls in that place", etc to a friend of me.

After the moment she found out, she physically attacked me in the middle of the street.

She was yelling and punched me twice very hard in the face. When trying to hold her arms away from my face, she was kicking me about 10 times with her feet.

I had marks in my face, my hand was bleeding (due to her nails) and my legs hurted.

I'm seriously in doubt if this behavior can be accepted. I have been unfair with her by not telling the truth. And YES i have emotionally hurted her very much. But i don't know whether this kind of aggressive reactions can be tolerated. She appeared to be an animal at that moment.

It isn't the first time. 1 time before she also got crazy but was able to hold her so she couldn't move anymore.

Basically - at first she broke up with me after founding out. Yet, some time later she said we just have to take some distance and maybe we can see if we can continue the relationship.

Nevertheless, should i continue with a woman who attacked me?

thanks for any help

Okay, what would we all say if a girl came on these forums and said her boyfriend struck her twice in the face. We'd tell her to call the police and get his ass thrown in jail. It would be sexist of me if I gave you different advice because the roles are reversed.

Report her to the police if there were witnesses or if you have marks. Also, never talk to her again.

-Wolf

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I'm confused by what you wrote how did your girlfriend find what you said?
Was it guy friend or a girl friend who sold you out.

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It was a conversation on Facebook.

She found out on Facebook (i left it stupidly open).

Damn... that's one thing I never do and that's check my facebook in front of my girlfriend. If i know she's coming over i make sure its closed.

I had a friend get caught talking about how he was going to break up with his girl over a text message all because he didn't have a lock on his phone and didn't delete the message.

Let this be a lesson never leave a paper trail anything written down can be used against you.

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its easy to be smart about other ppl's gfs but not about your own. i know, because you also gave me some really good advice some time ago.

why are you with this girl in the first place? do you think you will just magically fall in love with her if you spend some more months, years, deacdes with her? you wrote that to your friend beacuse you are not into this girl, and you would leave her if you had better options. get some better options, start sarging.

she dares to hit you because she is 100% sure that you wont fight back. this shouldn't be that way. i'm not telling you to beat the shit out of her or anything, jsut make her feel that you can fight back. a small slap in the face wont hurt her. i pushing her isn't gonna kill her either. but only do that if she attacks.

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break up with her before you end up in the news...with multiple stab wounds lol

Jesus christ dudes.

It's fucking GIRL.

We all know they are more emotional, and they can't do a thing about it.
The girl probably loved you and you talked behind her back.
'That's like, the worst thing he could do.'

When she was striking you, tell her: "Look what the fuck you're doing you crazy bitch. Why you think I broke up with you? Youre a fucking crazy bitch."
Ofcourse I don't know how the fuck she overpowered you, maybe she's the woman hulk or something.

But your intentions were good, that's why it's funny: You didn't want to hurt her, so she hurt you.

That's true, about the better options stuff.

Anyway - this girl loved me. She loved me like nobody ever loved me before. She was sweet, up to a level you can't even imagine. But as sweet she was 9 out of 10, as hard she could be 1 out of 10 times. I mean literally: like an animal.

Overpowering: well, what could i do? Slap her on the middle of the street? Hurt her even more? I already was an asshole to her, and hitting her with witnesses all around would leave me with a lot of troubles. She slapped me in the face without me anticipating it, i took her in some kind of wrestling pose, she began to kick with her legs. Yes - i could have thrown her on the ground. But fuck man, i was on the middle of the street. I just backed off and left her alone.

Anyway: during this relationship it has always been the same: her interest level was slightly above mines, she was always the one asking for more attention. She found out stuff that hurted her and got aggressive.

You "hurted" her?

Don't be a pussy. If I was a chick and I "founded" out the same way she did I would pop my man one good time in the lip too. Especially if I had been faithful! Take the beating like a man and part ways with her.

Unless you still want to be with her after she knocked you out....you're on your own there.

That "haded" me laughing lol

Next time she punches you, fall to the ground and pretend to be dead.

pfff, she worth the troubles? seems not cause you where planning on dumping her before, but didn't tell her?

maybe this is your chance of leaving.

I lol'ed at this ^




Apocalyptica, if you didn't have a good reason to leave before, you do now! Not only is she violent, she has zero imagination. There are tons of ways to get back at you for running your mouth without resorting to kicking, hitting, punching, and scratching.

Silly girl

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such cultural differences... if i was beaten by a girl, i not only wouldn't go to the police, i wouldn't even dare to tell my friends about it.

Apocalyptica, if you didn't have a reason to leave this girl before, you have now. Good time to use the eject button, before this plane crashes and you might hurt yourself emotionally. You are much better off emotionally if you are the one who dumps the other!

Also you would leave her sooner or leater anyway. Don't waste your time.

About a year ago the advice you gave me was about this girl (my LTR gf) who I was emotiannly so-so with for years. I was thinking of leaving her for a long time but not taking action. And when she suddenly dumped me, I went crazy, and it was much worse to hande the whole situation that way. It s much better to stay in control and dump that girl.

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