So I got this girl's number on facebook chat and we've been texting for a couple of weeks.

I'd try to arrange dates but she wasn't receptive to it, because up until this week, she had a boyfriend.

She's just broken up with him. I leapt at the opportunity and she's agreed to meet up in a few days.

I'm nervous because she's the most attractive girl I've ever gamed. I'm wanting pointers on how to eliminate the awkwardness of meeting up having never spoken in person before? Anyone have any experience with this?

I know that the "date" needs to have as relaxed a feeling as possible, in fact I'm going to stop referring to it as that. I'm going to try to come across as cool, confident and totally laid-back. I'm going to tease her a little, aim for some light kino, tell some good stories, and qualify her. Basically she's a really hot girl so I'm going to find out what her other qualities are and tell her I like them. Am I missing anything?

Did you know the girl before you started talking online?

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We knew OF each other. Mutual friends. But have never talked.

The best thing for that is call back humor. If you have a role-play going on with her, than you can reinitiate that role-play when u meet up with her. A lot of times I'll have roleplays going on with girls where I'm a knight in shining armor and they'r a princess or something. I might text her something like "ok, so when we meet up, just look for the guy riding in on a white horse with shining armor, that's me, k?" and then she'll respond "haha blah blah blah" and I might say something like "and I expect you to be wearing a $40,000 ball gown with glass slippers. If you don't, I'll be very dissapointed, missy"

Then when we meet up I can go right into that role-play and tease her for not wearing the glass slippers and pretend like I'm dissapointed in her (in a playful way of course).

But dude, your fine. Don't worry. Respark some attraction in the first half hour to hour of the date, then start really qualifying her and hitting on her. Don't get worked up about the fact that she's the hottest girl you've gamed or anything like that.
Two of the hottest girls I've ever slept with were also two of the easiest and quickest lays I've ever had So just cuz she's hot doesn't mean anything.

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Thanks for your reply dude, yeah I like the sound of that - I think once I've BROKEN THE ICE it will go well. It's just finding the best way to do that. I like your role-playing technique. How's this - "Be holding a single red rose so I know it's you." When I meet her - "Where's my rose?"

Yeah that'll work fine too.

What do you have planned for the date btw?

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My day 2's are always the same. I work in radio so I give the girl a tour of the studio. Then we go for a walk (maybe getting a coffee on the way) and end up sitting on some swings in a nearby playground. It's a lot more comfortable walking together than sitting across from each other at a table.

Ok, what about the end of the date (i.e. when you get laid)? You gotta plan that part too.

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Won't be any sex on this date brother. I'm not at that level yet. Give me two dates. Next date I take her to a salsa club and we end up back at my house. First date is for comfort. (Should've added that it takes place in the morning).

Whoa whoa whoa, you're shooting yourself in the foot dude. If you don't start setting up your dates so you could at least potentially get laid on the first date then you'll NEVER be at that level. You gotta at least set up the date so you can get laid. If you don't get laid, that's fine, but don't shoot yourself in the foot and say "well I'm not at that level yet" because if you set up the date properly and do the right things, then you very well might start getting laid on your first dates and soon you'll be saying "oh shit, I guess I AM at that level."

Dig it?

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Man, I see what you're saying. I just don't see how that could realistically happen. But I suppose, like you said, I should make it POSSIBLE for that to happen.