Why is it unhealthy for couples to be too comfortable with each other in a relationship?

Hi PUA-Paris, I think if you become too comfortable in a relationship you start to become lazy and get this mindset that you wont lose her. That she loves you and she is with you "forever" But deep down your becoming less and less of a catch, You become boring, The relationship starts to become boring there are several reasons why. Not only that I've seen men put on weight, Start to become ugly just not looking after themselves.

I think in a healthy relationship you both need to be a catch, you both need to improve, Keep eachother on your toes. Suprise each other, Make sure your both sexually attracted to each other work on your bodies etc...

All that goes out the window when you start becoming comfortable and boring. Maybe your fine with it but 9 times out of 10 women will not be therfore there is always risk of a better man coming along that will take care of her needs.

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Oh I get it, I thought by too comfortable they meant like doing everything together, talking about anything and everything, and even taking a shit together...LOL

Lmao

Being "comfortable" comes with connotations of boredom. For a relationship to be continuously successful, there must be secksual tension, passion, excitement, and undertones of anxiety. The reason why people fuck up so often is because they want to ELIMINATE this tension, which leads to a boring secks life, and an overall unfulfilling experience. The guy will either cheat through temptation, or the girl will dump his ass for a guy she is more into.

Love is real. The thing people forget is that it's not UNCONDITIONAL. A girl can fall OUT OF LOVE just as easily as she can fall IN LOVE. That means you NEED to keep her loving you, to keep the "spark" alive in your relationship. And you do that by keeping her in LIMBO. Don't eliminate the tension in your relationship - CONTROL it. Learn to balance it. Learn to be exciting at times, and boring at other times. Be cocky sometimes, and modest at other times. Be laconic, and then charismatic. Be ambitious, but amused and aloof. Keep your relationship alive.

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You should make a thread about that, great information but what if the guy is the one falling out of love? What can you do not to fall out of love?

Comfort = complacency = co-dependence = boredom = fights = break up.. 9 times out of 10.

All they're saying is just keep the relationship fun, exciting. - Slack off, and ultimately become another statistic