Greetings,

I've started dwelling into the depths of PUA a good year ago, back then I used to be a mess-up. My social-skills were extremely bad, I had no real contacts, spent hours and hours, heck even weekends playing video-games and generally, I had nothing in me & ofcourse my confidence was horrible. In those rare occasions that I would go out, I'd stand there in the middle of the club, talking to my very few mates and tried to get as drunk as possible, it's good when You have nothing better to do.

After a long time of social torture, I decided to hit the shelves, picking up the game from mystery, ever since then everything has pretty much skyrocketted. I'm now a social beast, I have absolutely no AA, I managed to take on an Alpha male attitude and I'm enjoying my life, atleast a thousand times more then before, my confidence is rock solid and there is absolutely nothing that stops me.

I'm here to share some of my stories throughout the ''years'' and hopefully adding in some good pointers which I've remembered. I've got some interesting motivational quotes aswell that keep me bright on those shitty days.


'' Dont live down to expectation, go out there and do something extroardinary ''
'' A true warrior, is a warrior that can turn hes conviction into a blade ''
'' You gotta lose some, to gain some ''

These 3, are the ones that I carry with me, everywhere I go, whatever I do.


Day (1): Halloweenparty.

Pumped myself up, made some contacts that day, just making sure I really got into the mood. Went there with a few mates, and we bumped into a girl that my friend seemed to know, She was pretty cute and I decided to throw away my AA and go for it. She was having a drink and I asked her a question about it and threw in a funny comment. We went to get some drinks and decided to go dance along with the girls we just saw. I tried being as creative as possible and saw 2 kisses on her shirt.
After a good amount of strong eye-contact + IoI's from her, I decided to hit it. The music was loud so a conversation could've possibly messed up the indirect link. I came up to her and said

Me: I like your shirt, but what exactly do those kisses stand for? ''Wink''
Her: The first kiss is for ''She kisses me on my cheeks''.
Me: Well that's interesting, seems I might aswell ask, what is the second one good for?
Her: ''Kisses me on my mouth''

We made out a bit more, then number closed her and continued to party.
It was the first kiss I got after 2.5 years since my LTR.
This was the beginning of my journy & thirst for more.

It went fairly cheap, I played my game extremely bad, but I had learnt ALOT from just this experience, something I still carry along.

Positive things I learnt/did:

* Put my AA aside
* Pumped myself up before I went
* Tried to be creative with something rather then boring
* Showed ALOT of confidence when I walked in
* Genuinely played the funny/cocky guy
* Took on the mindset of I dont give a fuck what happends.


Negative things I learnt/did:

* I opened very few sets, should've definatly done more.
* Got really drunk since I was satisfied
* Bad Kino
* Bad escalation
* Bad jokes


Key of succes: Confidence + Balls.

I used to walk around in decent clothing, the main-stream long hair, a nice shirt and some jeans along with some casual shoes. As my personality started changing from ''Nice guy You can tell everything'' too ''You only live once, make the best out of it''.. I completely threw away my old style and began something new. I tried searching for something unique, it was a tough choice.
as I started observing people all around me, I managed to find something ''special''. I received alot of compliments for this, and it only gets better. For those who are interested.

http://coolmenshair.com/2009/06/kim-jun ... tyles.html



Day (2):

With great confidence, and a style I was absolutely in love with, I headed off to spain for 10 days. I met up with some friends at this crazy party and we instantly met a few guys from Switserland, and let me tell you that I am so fucking glad I met these guys!.. honestly.. They looked average AT BEST, but their game was so goddamn solid.
I wasn't much of a dancer back then, but they showed me how hitting the dance-floor hard, will get you laid, in no time.
Instead of opening up sets, I actually took alot of time analyzing these guys, I was so amazed because every 2 minutes a new group of girls came talking to our guys, giggling and having fun, I wouldn't lie if i said they #-closed about 30 girls each night, along with plenty of F-closing day in, day out.

I noticed that they had alot of tricks up their sleeves, they were always being direct, showed interest, had a really solid attitude and played out the cat-string theory in amazing ways. I decided to take the opportunity to talk to them about it, and how they were so good with women, after a good amount of ''mentoring'', I decided to use their words of gold.


Day (2) - HB(8):

We went to the same place, the music and booze was awesome so there was no need to change clubs, that night I decided to focus more on the girls.
I wasn't great at opening, I hated pre-programmed shit, so I decided to do it another way around.
it didn't take long before i spotted this girl looking at me, she was really cute, We had strong eye-contact and I decided to man the fuck up.
I slowly slowly started walking to her with strong eye-contact and noticed her smiling and turning away.
I stood still for a bit and offered her my hand, she wasn't hesitant and played along, I made her do a twist and then just grabbed her by the hips and lifted her up. (Man this shit is worth more then diamant in the right circumstances). BAM, exactly the move I had to pull off to get her attention.
The DHV value from this is extremely high, You are confident, You are playful, but also mysterious.
After that she laughed and gave me this little friendly slap on the shoulder, I decided to talk to her, grind with her, but couldn't escalate properly because I was still trying new stuff and didn't have the balls to close.
I had alot of fun that night, got piss-drunk again and slowly started dancing. there wasn't much interesting left, as it ended up in us trying to find our hotel at 5 AM, taking us about 2 hours, instead of 15 minutes.



Positive things I learnt/did:

Said goodbye to my AA.
Using some awesome techniques from my friend
Being creative
Showing alot of confidence in general.
Opened up a few more sets then before



Negative things I learnt/did:

I fucked up when it came to sexual tension
I also fucked up when it came to proper comfort
My jokes still sucked balls
I could've opened way more sets again.