So I'm new to gaming, I met a HB9 at work a couple of weeks ago. We went on our first date on Valentines. The date went very well, but she mentioned she doesnt kiss on the first date. At the end of the night she gave me a peck on the cheek and said she wanted to do this again sometime.

I recently asked her our again for a second date, she explained to me shes still hurting from her ex and shes not ready for a relationship.

Should I kiss her on the second date? if so, where? when? any kiss tests?

Yes you should kiss her! Don't let yourself get friendzoned.

Can't help you with how to kiss her though. That's completely situational. I might be able to if you told me some more about how the second date will be.

You say you are new to pick up. Maybe consider picking up a book? There are plenty on the subject.

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I'm not in the friendzone thats for sure, she told me she was interested in me and I'm the only guy shes talking to right now. The only reason I ask is because she stated that she wasn't ready to date, she also said she doesnt want any romance on our date.

Kinda confusing, but woman will be woman.

P.S

I am new to gaming, but I use to bartend so I'm pretty good with woman when it comes to natural game. I just don't know all the tricks or have the "tools of the trade" yet, I guess thats why I'm here.

Have you seen the movie 'No Strings Attached' with Natalie Portman and Ashton Kutcher?

Natalie agrees to go on a date with him but explicitly tells him not to bring her flowers, when they meet up he gives her carrots instead. Genius move in my eyes.

You could try something like that. She told you she doesn't want any romance? Mock her with it by doing something romantic in a funny way. She will love it, I promise.

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Adam Lyons kiss test:
he asks about three interesting things, or three things of some sort.
after the first he high fives, then discusses it
after the second, the bro hand shake with holding hands and bringing in for the hug,
on the third: he hugs and kisses on cheek, then leans out while still hugging and goes for a kiss on the other cheek. If she leans in you know you can kiss her after your done with the second kiss. If she shys away when you move for the second kiss. back up and try again later. Makes it less awkward for you because you weren't going for her lips, just her cheek. People do that sort of thing all the time in Europe.

If it fails, then you look to do the same thing or something else later
just advice on a move you could possibly make

Thanks, I will try that