There's this girl that I met, I number closed her but I think I did not build enough attraction. I find her so damn beautiful so when I got home, I'm so excited, my first message to her was asking her out indirectly. I'm so happy sending this, then I realized that I did the wrong move, she hasn't replied yet and she may never reply forever. What to do? I want to meet her again but I think it won't happen anymore damn! any Advice?

Haha beginner mistake. I've made plenty of those.

Remember, you are the price. What if you went hunting but all the animals just walk up to you, take your gun and kill themselves. That wouldn't be fun, would it. People like a challenge, and since girls are people..

Wait a few days, if she hasn't replied by then call her. If that doesn't turn out the way you like just move on, she's missing out on you don't forget that.

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Totally agree!

Use the Cat-String-theory.... Let her earn your attention bro

Just write if you feel like it

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I thought guys that you could help me with this one!

This is the dialog on facebook between me and the girl.

Me: Red or black?
She: excuse me?
Me: Red or black.. its an easy question..just answer!
She: What are you talking about? About what?
Me: Ooh! I 'll make you an easier question then. Hot or Cold? Just pick one!
She: Hot
Me: Even or odd?
She: You are crazy. Odd
Me: i knew it. Radio or TV?
She: Radio
Me: Wrong.. Nice meeting you Mrs Hot/Odd/Radio, but there is a conflict with our personalities. :/
She:??? What are you talking about?
Me: You wanna try again? Last chance!
She: what is this?
Me: A game. Wanna try again?
She: On what purpose? What is the conclusion of it?
Me: I make the Questions!!
She: pff!
Me: Coffee or milkshake?
She: Coffee
Me: hm.. i see..
She:
Me: Today or tomorrow?
She: Today
Me: Will you choose the place or me?
She: xaxaxaxaxaxa (I think here is the point where she realizes the frame.)
Me . Its not the answer to the question!
She: Is that in the game too?
Me: hm.. no, out of the game.
She: obviously
Me: so who is choosing the place?
She: I wouldnt say it for today.
Me: Neither for tomorrow?!!
She: I am telling you this because i have to study, and then i have to be in.....(a place). Will you be in the university?
Me: Yes i will (be in the university)
She: Do you want to give me your number to call you for tomorrow if i can?
Me: Do you want to give me your number to call YOU for tomorrow if I can?!!
She: A ok. You said you are going anyway to be in the uni.
Me: Ok . Today i will be in the uni. Not tomorrow..
She: Oh i didnt get it. When are you going to be in uni again?
Me: Friday
She: So, friday it is?
Me: For coffee?
She: Yes
Me: Nice.. place?
She: We will see... Somewhere close to.
Me: I choose starbucks.
She: ok
Me: at 12 o clock
She: ok

And then at 12:44 pm she sends me a message in facebook telling me that:
She: i think that tomorrow i am not gonna make it to wake up, because i am still studying and i have plenty to do.... i hope you see it, because i dont have your number!!! sorry!!! have fun if you have gone out tonight!!! kisses!

And by accident i log in facebook at 7:00 am and i see the message..Thank God i wasnt stood up! What should i do then? Should i talk to her? Should i ignore her on facebook? What went wrong?!

well actually you sort of did the right move, it may not be anything you did, but more who you presented yourself as, or something to do with her, you can never be sure of this unless you notice a re-occurring pattern

just give it a day or two, then try again, this is basically just what a flake looks like, probably a real number, but she just gave it so she didn't have to face the pressure of rejecting you in person, so she gives her number as ignoring you on the phone is easier then a possible butthurt guy in front of her

keep getting out there and getting numbers, and trying to get them out after getting the numbers, asking a girl out over the phone is what it is for, and if you are getting alot of shitty flake numbers, then work on that interaction and first impression you had in person, be more awesome and make a better impression

GOOD LUCK

@Fallenpriest

Nice one on using the choosing game. My guess is that you went for it without the proper report though. If you and her would have been a little closer she wouldn't have flaked. I could tell from the conversation itself that she probably would flake which she did.

Try to connect some more with her first, you would probably have had a better result by just asking her out. This game isn't made for girls you don't know that well or aren't attracted to you yet. Read the OP!

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Thank you both of you guys! Also what is the OP?!

The Original Post.


I've searched for you but I couldn't find it. Remember having seen it recently though.

It's the post you got the red/black game from, it starts exactly the same so you must have seen it too. If you find it, link it please!

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i cannot post the link because i haven't done 5 posts but it is in the section "Approaching and Opening" with the title "how i should approach on facebook". In the first page.

Here we go. how-should-i-approach-on-facebook-vt97704.html
I think your girl wasn't there yet, man

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one thing i know for sure, when she apologized for not being able to make it beforehand, nothing went wrong. you're still in the green zone hit her up next friday or weekend. girls have life, believe me. it's not always when they say they can't come they making excuses.

replying to fallenpriest

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Luckily I met her again, hahaha! I re-approached and act like there's nothing happened, I didn't even mention the message I sent haha! Lessons learned. Won't do this again. Thanks to the bus stop!