Anyone who follows thIs forum basically knows that my ex cheated on me, she's young and 18. Fit as fuck. Anyway she lives upstairs and since she did it she has self harmed and told me she was scared of commitment etc... Iv shagged her a couple times since and told her that I still like her. Anyway went out at the week end and got with 5 girls as in kiss. After Tuesday night when I stayed over hers I laid in bed feeling nothing for her now after everything that's gone on.

I was laying there thinking I want nothing more than just sex. She fuxked it up. Anyway I want to kinda shag her still as she lives upstairs and get with other girls. Should I tell her that I got with other girls etc? And then try keeping it friends or just lead her on?

My best mate tells girls he likes them etc and cheats on them loads, an they know it and don't mind because it's him :/. How can I get something like this. When I call she comes.?

Ps before she cheated on me on a drunk night out I was the perfect gentleman. And he knows it. However never having her back. Unless we shag. She lives upstairs so I see her everyday so... Only for 3 more months tho

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Dude, just fuck her however much you want and invest however little you want. It's pretty simple, she cheated on you. She had sex with another man while she was your girlfriend.

In my book she has zero worth as anything more than a sexual partner now. If you can fuck her without feelings good for you. Do not lie to her. If she ASKS if you're seeing other people be honest, but don't say if she doesn't ask.

You don't owe this girl anything, if you want to fuck her then do it, if you want to do it while seeing other people then do it.

Ball is in your court, play the game well.

She was texting me all week end, and she still has feeling for me, but I ignored her...

then this evening i text her saying:

Me: up to much?
her: just getting ready for bed etc.. u?
me: just thinking about you....
her: what about
me: dunno really ... stuff
her: well you must know lol
then it ended and she went to bed...

dunno what the fuck i was doing, was just bored i guess.

Seeing her tomorrow lunchtime at my place anyway. What do you reckon I should do. Just say... yeah i wanna be friends? That's not going to get me a shag ? Preferably wanna shag her tomorow lunch time as well

She has no value now, just want her for sex. Any ideas?

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if you wanna just use her for no strings attached sex then seal it tomorow by having sex. if you hang out 1 on 1 in an intimate environment without escalating beyond friendship then you will be left with just friendship, or seeing as she's an ex, a mixed message between what you want (just sex) and what you offer (anything else). make it clear you aren't interested in anything else by escalating and then if she objects completely freezing her out, keep doing it till she gets the message.

if she likes you enough then she'll probably fuck you for validation in which case you then have to get her to leave or leave yourself as soon as you're done fucking. no feelings.

personally i wouldnt bother with this drama but if you want the sex its do-able.

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Ok, so she came down and sat on my bed and we chatted about what we got up to over the week end etc...

Then i said... well with regards to us etc... I just can't be bothered any more... and said, yeah its getting to that point. She then said do you want me to go then... i said its up to you etc...

anyway, i sat next to her and gave re a hug then kissed her, she kissed me back and i tried going for it and taking her cardighan off and she stopped me. So i pulled back and kissed her again then pulled her to my door and turned the light out. She knew what I was after but said she should go, so i said yeh you probs shud and kissed her agreeing with her etc...

just as shes getting up to go with a mindset of she shouldn't be here I did this killer line....

"It sucks, because I want you, but we both know we can't be with each other"

She starts kissing me grinding her groin against my leg, instantly turned on thrusting her hips forward, i stripped her off and fucked her.

40 mins later---

We cum together and i get up to get a drink. As you said above^^^ after it finishes kick her out. Before I had the chance to say.. i think you should go etc... she got up and got dressed and went ... and kissed her as she left lol

(Feel as though she was 1 step ahead of me there)

Anyway, I left so many love bites on her neck. haha

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