So there's this girl I was flirting with while I was with my exgf. I'm now single and we still talk a lot and shes always like "Please help me find a hot guy!" and "Uggh im in bed alone tonight! =(". But she never makes any hint that she's into me otherwise, besides for just talking all the time. I can't tell if this is an IOI and wants me to do something or if she's just saying that so that I'll be like "Oh well I can come keep u company" and she'll just laugh and shoot me down. Any advice?

-Ghazal

Are you serious? Man, you should go balls deep in that ass. This is not an IOI, this is a repeated invitation for sex.

But I've made moves before and gotten shot down. Like one morning she randomly said "The space next to me in my bed is cold.." and I was like "That sounds like an invitation." and she goes "Haha not for you.". Soooo I'm assuming she just likes fucking around with me.

"..."
"haha not for you"
"i know you can't resist "

Haha I've tried stuff like that with her and she just shoots me down. I feel like I can get her, I just need to break through her bitch shield. I'm just not sure how to do that lol.

DONT SEEM SO NEEDY !

your situation means that she wants you but only if u deserve and if ur worth it. and that is the reason why she is testing you.

Next time she tells you its cold or what ever, don't tell her " wow are you inventing me" NO .
just go like " Woaah but me a drink before hitting on me like that. I'm not that easy u know" and do it PLAYFULLY or else ull sound like a jerk !! then go laughing and mess in around !

if she tells you " I'm alone in bed tonight :

Tell her, well, why are you telling me that, or just ignore !
if she feels like she can manipulate u in anything sexually she says, then ill always be her little puppy that she'll talk to when she needs a confidence boost, and ill never get anything from her.
so just be the guy that she wants to sleep with so much that she wouldn't dare say those to him.

Yeah this is not an IOI, if she is telling you things like that and you are taking the bait she is seeing you as a "guy friend" and not a potential suitor. Don't come off as needy and trying to say that you'll hop into bed if she hints at it. Act like you don't care, for me I would tease her with that

Her- "I'm in bed alone tonight"
Me- "Must be your bad breathe, lol"
or "That's one of the reason's why you need a better personality haha"

Joke with her about it, but don't go to far just remember to tease her. Act like James Bond and she is not good enough for you. Soon she will start trying to gain your attention.