During sex, my gf ususally cums from me either eating her out , or rbbing her clit during intercourse. Is there a way a girl can come during intercourse just from a dick?

There is a way, of course, but some chicks can't come unless they are rubbing her clit. I wouldn't worry too much about it. If she's coming, then mission accomplished.

My first gf used to be like this, and we lasted a couple of years.

Girl I'm fucking now doesn't touch herself and comes like a maniac.

In my experience, there are two types of vaginal orgasms. The first one is almost entirely psychological in nature, and you have to "mind fuck" your girl into it. The emotional component of your relationship is going to factor heavily into this.

The girl needs to think that you're "The one", that you own her, you're her protector, that nothing can hurt her when she's around you, and that you're comfortable enough to do/say anything around each other. The girl has to be absoloutely 100% comfortable with you for this to work, so it requires you break down all of the personal barriers nearly all women have developed through past relationships. This will be especially difficult if she's been cheated on or lied to.

Physically though, you basically just want to have slow, rhythmic sex with the girl while making extremely long, unboken eyecontact (to the point that you might even question wether youre coming off creepy or not), grab at different parts of her body like you cant help yourself and say romantic, dirty stuff to her.


As a variation on this, I like to slowly tease my girl with my dick, putting about an inch in at first, slowly, then slowly pulling out and repeating this a few times. Then give her a little more, repeat this process, and progress slowly. When youve worked your way to about half way into her, dont stop and just sink your dick all the way in when she's expecting you to hesitate. At this point just proceed with the slow, rhythmic sex. If you've revved her up properly, after a few minutes of this she should have a mind blowing orgasm, provided there isn't something seriously wrong with her physically or psychologically.


If you can pull that off with a girl, it means she's likely to make you breakfast in bed, loan you her credit card, beg to have your children and devote her entire life to you without question.

The second way just consists of slowly working your girl into sex at a nice pace, then violently annihilating her vagina with extreme force and brutality. Hit up "pornhub" or some other similar site and look for videos featuring a pornstar named "manuel". Should have longish hair. He's a good example of what you should model your dick game after. Your ability to pull this off depends on your athleticism, sexual endurance, explosive hip power and cardiovascular conditioning.

If your girl can have clitoral orgasms, try and grind your pelvis into hers, hitting her clit when you're on top during sex. You can even pull her into you, causing her to grind her clit against your pubic bone as well. Doing this at an even pace will allow her to have clitoral orgasms during intercourse. One of my signature moves is to do that, then go into jackhammer mode while she's cumming for what I like to call the "Double Down" or the "Two for One".

Again though, every girl is different as is every relationship. A womans orgasm depends heavily on context. The secret to making women cum is that 40% of "dick game" occurs in the bedroom and 60% is how you present yourself and make her view you before you even get there.

I'll try that eye contact thing and slow thrusts. If I fuck her too hard like Manuel, she usually complains afterwards that she cannot sit down and that it hurts to pee for her. She always says, "gently, gently" ,but I think that's bullshit because I tried it gently a few times but she didn't cum, however, if I just keep rubbing her hard in the 11 o'clock direction, she comes after a while. I also use a list of dirty phrases from reddit http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/d4 ... to_a_girl/

I've read David Shade's Manual and he had some nice tips for making girls orgasm. Also, I really good book I found is She Comes First by Ian Kerner. That teaches you how to give oral properly.

In David Shade's Manual he wrote about Tantra and Sexual Conditioning. I tried that for a while but it was too much work so I gave up. Though I can remember one technique which is similar to what J19891 describes.

First, I insert my dick a little bit and repeat 10 times, then I insert it 9 times and 1 all the way in, then 8 times little bit and 2 time all the way in... until I just fuck her all the way in rhythmically.

I can feel that this is driving her crazy and sometimes she even starts grinding on my cock, while I'm fucking her. But the problem is that the moment she enjoys it too much and gets closer to orgasm, the more she moves around and the more stimulation my dick gets. Therefore, I must stop fucking her otherwise I cum inside her! However, when I stop fucking her, and stop giving the stimulation, she calms down as well and gets farther away from orgasm. After a few silent seconds, I'm ready to resume pounding, but then I need to build up her orgasm again and the cycle repeats. I simply can't last long enough so that she can come on my dick. This happens even if I masturbate beforehand. I try thinking about neutral things like animals, lions or my grandma but it doesn't work. :/

i picture derek jeter in drag. works for me.

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Jesus Christ!

I thought I was going to die laughing. I need to ask my boyfriend if he ever thinks about his grandma to keep from coming too quickly...lol

Sorry I don't mean to laugh at you, but that caught me off guard. Anyways, try asking your lady what she likes. Make her comfortable enough with you to trust you, and she'll be able to tell you what feels good. All women masturbate, so ask her to show you how she does it with toys. Maybe she can even guide your cock to a better position. Personally, I have the most orgasms when my hips are angled upwards, either with one leg on his shoulder or with my ass propped on pillows or our Sexwedge. Give it a shot, and don't be that guy who refuses to ask for directions

^this.

each girl is different, just find her spot and work on it, they wont be complaining where its coming from!

Orgasms are mental.. my ex gf could come, once or twice during sex...
My new girlfriend always comes at least 5 times, some by oral sex and some by intercourse.. I haven't had a lot of results with slow sex, its more the fast agressive sex that makes her orgasm.
She has to focus on the orgasm, and you have to keep a steady pace, the female orgasm can be gone in a matter of seconds, if you are doing it fast, and then you get tired and slow down, she can lose it.
So basically just keep a steady rythm, find what turns her on.. my gf loves rough and agressive sex, putting your hand in her mouth, spanking her, biting her.
Others prefer slow sex
Find what turns her on!