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Man I hate that. I'm (was) dating a girl like that.

First month was good between us, mostly it was me initiating to make plans, but I WOULD get a random "HEY!" text every few days. We'd see each other at least twice a week.

Then it dropped to once a week, and now it's at the point where this weekend makes a month.

The week before last I got i ntouch with her to see if she was free last sat night...she told me she had plans all weekend. And of course she offered no alternative time.

Ok, no prob I say. Well then would you like to get together at an as yet unspecified time sometime this week?

Then I text about ten min later after not hearing from her " Or, if not, which I'm getting the feeling is the case, let me at least give you your earing back and get my DVD"

She has my Big Lebowski DVD...I want that back!!

So she replies "I do want to see you, but I'm getting the feeling you're upset..?"

I say not upset, just confused. I haven't seen or talked to you much at all over the past few weeks, I was thinking you were trying to move on"

She says "Oh, I hadn't thought of that. I guessI haven't been fair".

Then she says " I have plans on tues and my students waat to get together one night this week, but when I find out which night is free I'll let you know".

(she's 25, btw, and teaches a class in addition to being a computer programmer)

So I texted her to say hi on this past tues , and it turns out the plans she had that night were cancelled, but she had made a new set of plans to go out with freinds.

I haven't heard from her since.

I don't get it....I gave her an easy out, I don't know why she didn't take it. I'm done with her, but this just has me confused. It's like she's just hoping I'll go away, and she doesn't want to be the bad guy by ending it.

I just want my friggin' DVD back at this point. Sex with her once more would be great too, but I'll be happy with the DVD. I hate losing shit to women like this. It's bad enough I lost a Social D cd afew years ago, I'm not losing one of my fav movies too!

Thats the problem is that most of these guys go into pua faking who they are and every word that comes out of their mouth without being able to develop their real, HONEST self. Because of this they just have that "fake it till you make it" attitude. Then they have other PUA's tell them to stop gaming after they've gotten the girl as if all you had to do was GET the girl and your love life problems would be solved. The problem is in fact, when you end those games you "revert" back to your normal self who is still a pussy and has no idea how to keep and handle a woman and then she ends up owning your ass. Search up Alan Roger Currie, David X, and manhood academy, these guys are the real fuckin deal no joke.

Actually you're right, and that's an easy trap to fall into.

The women are attracted to the person who was gaming them, but when you revert back to your true self, they lose interest.

That's why I just try to be myself, and use all this stuff sparingly, or only for openers. I try not to be someone I'm not.